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Am I in love?

My lifelong best friend, Jeremy, and I recently lost our virginity to each other. We agreed that it would just be casual experimention between two extremely close friends. We also agreed that we would just do it once, to "get our feet wet" and leave it at that. But I can't stop thinking about it. I keep remembering how good it felt as he was making love to me. I want him even more than I did before. Did we make a mistake?
Do you think it's normal?
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Killington27 (4617)
2006-12-11 15:38:05
yes you had sex so that MUST mean that you are in love
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sisophous (3738)
2006-12-11 16:03:03
It's only a mistake if either of you are not responsible. Use birth control and make sure neither of you have a STD. There's nothing that says you can't change your minds and resume having it. Sounds like you both had a lot of fun!
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babyangel2580 (1623)
2006-12-11 23:31:53
It is a mistake, now instead of life long friends that could trust eachother you could be known as 'fuck buddies' or 'friends with benifits' who casually have sex for the heck of it. I've yet to have sex, but I'm almost positive that sex is more passionate and overall better when love is involved.

Good Luck

Angel
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cabinet70 (4440)
2006-12-12 05:21:13
You made an agreement now you have to stick with it
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tsin27 (5324)
2007-01-16 09:30:51
THIS IS FANTASTIC.

me and my best friend had a relationship like this NO SEX involved though just everything else.

TWO POSSIBLE PROBLEMS TO NOTE*
1/ either of you could get to aqquainted to this relationship and end up falling in love with the other JEOPARDIZING YOUR FRIENDSHIP COMPLETLEY.

2/ eventually one of you is going to get into a serios relationship with someone else and the other one is not going to be happy about it AT ALL!
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omgurdead (5597)
2007-01-30 06:17:27
1. no it wasn't a mistake.
2. no you're not in love.
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DrSham (5677)
2007-02-26 10:03:56
Did you film this?
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blahblah (6368)
2007-03-06 19:41:03
you are obviously very comforatable with your freind...and yall can tell eachother everything. personaly, thats what i look for in a guy...first of all, attraction (which obviously you wouldn't have sex w/ a guy ur not attracted to) and being yourself. You may not be in love...but you do want him.
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Episteme (6439)
2007-03-08 20:49:03
Yeah, my best friend turned out to be a great husband. I didn't look at him that way for a long long time. Funny how things work out.

Maybe it was a mistake, maybe it was the best decision you ever made. But be safe, use protection... for him and for you!
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Knock_It_off (6904)
2007-03-25 11:37:31
It's a mistake of he doesnt want you.
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laprincessa (7553)
2007-04-14 01:40:48
lol see this is why you not suppose to have sex wit eacother cause you get sprung off them trust me girl just tell him how you feel im sure he'll understand like you said you guys are really close friends
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confuseddontknowwhattodo (7845)
2007-04-26 05:43:05
having a sexual relationship with your best friend is not something i would recommend, but i guess its too late now! ive done it and ive found it completley fucks your friendship. u cant just have sex once, (or however many times) and expect the relationship to be the same. in my experience it was different, it was fucked and i majorly regret it. i hope my case is in the minority, for your sake
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kristina_696969 (6736)
2007-04-27 10:55:58
To the aouthor of this story; If he is your best friend you should be able to talk to him about anything and everything. How have the 2 of you been since the sexual encounter. Ha she shunned you or are you still best friends?

Do you talk about it? Maybe you should. And, who knows he may ask you to do it again!
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MrHard (10343)
2007-09-02 04:04:15
How old are you if you are out of school then you are in love
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