I work in a small company, with ten employees. One of the guys I work with (I'm male by the way) is a nice guy and all, but once in a while, he does weird things.
Though he's married, he makes suggestive comments that I find inapproprite, and even has a few physical "quirks", I guess you could say.
-He has threatened to "make my ass hurt".
-He constantly (like on a daily basis) grabs/tries to grab my nipples.
-He grabbed my ass this morning.
-He threatened to "shave my balls"
-He threatens to place a "banana in my tailpipe"
-He has an unnatural fascination with Guns 'N Roses, STILL. I know it's not really related, but I think it says a LOT about him.
There is more, but that's what comes to mind immediately.
Should I speak to my boss about this?
Oooooohhhh....
"Immigrants and faggots, they make no sense to me..
they come to our country and think they'll do as they please...
like start some mini-iran, or spread some fucking disease..."
Are you gay?
Just like to add (I've got experience in dealing with issues like this at a Fortune 500 Co.) you should document each time this person makes an offensive comment. Write down the exact comment, word for word that was said, the date it took place, the place in the building it was said. And, never retaliate with any such provocative remark or make threats. Make copies of it too and keep in a safe place, never at work. Then, if and when you take this issue to your boss or even higher, bring with you a copy of these incidents and give it to your boss. This will be your proof, and give you a strong case, sends a message you mean business. It can also help you out in a court of law if you pursue it that far. Good luck!
btw, when you ask him if he is gay, do it in public and out loud...
The best way to resolve you're obvious fear of this man is to slap his ass and tell him you'll make his bung hole bleed.
Of course it all sounds like it now too late for you to turn the tables on him now as you soujnd like you're his bitch.
He's a funny, if somewhat irritating guy.
Get yourself a girlfriend or boyfriend (as it sounds like you may be a gay) and take it out on them instead