It's probably best if you don't have kids considering you don't seem to be too devoted their upbringing. That, and the fact that the world is already more than adequitely populated, and you wouldn't be bringing your kid into the best conditions. Breeding to pass on your genes seems like a selfish reason for having kids. But it's nice to see you're actually planning and questioning yourself though.

Do NOT have a child with any boyfriend. Date someone for a 2-4 years to see if they are compatible as a life long partner, see if they are responsible and can support you and themselves. If so, marry the person once you found Mr. Right. If you have a child with a boyfriend he will eventually leave you because there is no commitment without marriage. Guys will come and go as they please without marriage, particularly if they are getting sex. And, the guy who you love so much will eventually go his own way unless you marry him. You are far from ready to have kids.

And as to the question of whether or not mothers want to automatically devote thier lives to a child, look around. How many children are in foster care? How many die every year from abuse and neglect? Women are not machines, they do not automatically go into "mother mode" as soon as they give birth. Question your reasons for bringing another life into the world closely.

i hate kids.

I would suggest you wait a while it is obvious you want kids but you havent finished living your life yet so do that first because kids chamge everything and they rule your life. They are the priority your life as you know it now is over and you live for your kids so wait

I think when women get broody, that is scary. I want a part of him growing inside me? Son of a bitch. The only thing I want growing inside a girl is my erection not some thing that is gonna keep me up all night and cost me probably a million quid in my lifetime. FUCK OFF!

Thats a tuff one. no matter wat other people say, and trust me having kids is not easy, and it only gets hard as they grow older, but u'll know wen ur ready. Just be prepared to give up almost everything for them.

you have kids jigsaw, they're probably little devils following in your footsteps. Try to restrain them from killing too many people.

how funny. You want to have kid wit him so they baby can carry both genes..then you don't want to take care. If you don't want to take care then don't think about having kid. Don't bring it into this world then abandon it. If you're not ready for baby, don't try to have one. Wait until older and think that you want to take care of the baby and see how she/he grow up and call you mom and you willing to do anything for this baby. Then have a baby at that time.