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How Far Should I Go?
I'm 15/m and have a girlfriend who is also 15. We've been going out for 3 months pretty successfully. I want to know how intimate should/could I get with her? Considering the age. What do people do at that age? All we did so far is just make out, I'm not sure whether I should try to feel her boobs and stuff...
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its really up to you how far u go. Some people are having sex at 15 while others havent even touched a member of the opposite sex. I wouldnt say either is better...I think its different w each person.I would say that considering your age, you might want to go really slow and see how you feel about each new step. If you start to feel upset or unsure about some of the shit you do then stop there for a while. But, yeah, go slow and that way you wont regret too much. oh and ofcourse always use protection...so that you dont end up hurting yourself healthwise.
OK, but how can I find out how far she's willing to go? How do I start?
You should get an idea just by reading her face and her emotions. If you are unsure you can ask her directly and be ready to back off if she says no. It sounds like she is waiting for you to initiate further. If it goes further, make sure you or her use birth control. You absolutely do not want to get her pregnant. And, birth control is not 100% effective.
Rent a Ron Jeremy film, and all ur questions shall be answered.
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wut up dude... i'm 14 and i think it's cool you dont know how far to go. dalfaceNY (4054) has got it right though, some ppl go stright to sex some don't go near each other cause they both afraid. It's happened to me b4 (the 2nd one). So i have a gf now also. Girls if you don't agree with me then i'm fine if you argue with my comments, but you an make it funny to touch her b**bs. Your gf likes jokes doesn't she?? make sure she can take a joke. This isn't a joke but what ya do is, tickle her tummy and her reactions will raise her arm and yours to her b**bs. Then you go "well.. thats interesting" or something like that. If she thinks you are very serious about these things then don't try but i have done it with 5 gf's. worked for me every time. DO NOT TRY IF SHE THINKS YOU ARE A VERY SERIOUS GUY OR IF SHE DOESN'T LIKE SILLY THINGS!! well i just tryed to help. and again anyone disagrees with me then whatever talk to me bout it. Hope i helped. Good Luck dude. Merry Christmas!
Both of you should consentrate in other things like sports, school work and friends. Don't rush things of this nature,the first sexual experience of a person is very importan. When the time is right you will know.But if you decide to take the next step be sure to use protection at all times and be very gentle and caring with the girl.
i was bout 2 fuk some bitch wen i was 13 but i didn have a condom dan she moved lol but u fukin 15 yrs old how u nah even done any fun sht?
go to a movie. talk for the first half, the second half put some moves on her. Whilst you are making out with her start going up her theigh and towards her region. When there, move around, pulse your fingers, if she immediately stoops making out, then STOP. she hates it. If she moves your hand away, move it back over a period of a minute or 2. if she moves it again. STOP! she hates it. if she lets you do it the second time, then she wasn't "horny" enough but fromt he first time she got there and so the second time is perfect. If she loves it the firs time. go down her pants/shorts/skirt. start playing around and if you are lucky enough you can find a place to do it afterwards. I would recommend going to either one of your houses and trying to quietly do it in a remote location.

REMEMBER TO MAKE OUT THE ENTIRE TIME!!! THIS KEEPS HER MIND MORE ON THE MAKING OUT THAN YOUR HANDS AND THEREFORE YOU CAN GO FARTHER, FASTER!
actualy birth control is only 85% affective(i was bored in the doctor's office,so i read the box)
i recomend birth control and a condom...OR JUST DONT DO IT!
im 12 and had sex so go for a homerun
You do realize we can see your profile right, you're ten, and I'm reasonably certain that you haven't had sex, and if you have, you'll probably be scarred for life.
Yeah, plus you look about eight.
Feeling her up. okay, fingering. okay. Sex. not okay. oral, is sex, btw.
It will just happen , but if ur real desperate and cant wait then why not ask her?
Don't start having sex until you are able to get a decent job, incase you have a baby. I mean you need to be responsible first. But for the time being you can fondle her boobs.
my sister lost her virginity when she was 15. Every person decides for themselves when the wanna lose it. If u and your gf are comfortable with having sex then fuck away!
Feeling her up. okay, fingering. okay. Sex. not okay. oral, is sex, btw.

THATS MY ADVICE TO YA, JUST TRY STUFF AND IF SHE SAYS NO THEN DON'T TRY TO FORCE IT!!!!
Yes listen to mscena5469 she/he has good advice!
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well dont do anything that makes her uncofertable... but ii dont think at your age you should have sex... but feeling her up would be good and maybe if you think your both ready bj's are good or her just feeling your dick would both be great for you... but again feeling her up will make her happy or just tutching her and fumbling around.
well its your choice...
try it and see how see responds...
or just ask her...
I think people who have said certain things are wrong and certain things are right are themselves wrong, it absolutely depends on the poeple involved and type of relationship. I personaly think sex at this age after a 3 month relationship is absolutely acceptable but considering you haven't even groped her that'd be a bit of leap. Just go ahead with what you feel right, there's absolutely nothing abnormal about a strongly sexual relationship at your age. Hope it works out.
ur a fucked up chil u flammin homo
who'd u have sex with, ur mom?
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