Ask her what she's doing on Friday night. If she says nothing, then take her to a nice restaurant and pay for her dinner.

Sure can, keep it very simple the first time. Try this...."I was wondering if you'd like to go to a movie Friday night?" or "Would you like to go to a concert with me this weekend" or "Would you like to go to the diner for lunch tomorrow". "Was wondering if you'd like to go to a Ranger hockey game this Saturday with me"? My fav is going to a diner, getting a booth and talking to a girl over lunch. It's very informal, you get to know her better and there is no pressure. You can always plan bigger things at a later time if you both click. Museums are often a lot of fun too, if some are in your area, find out some interesting ones and ask her to go with you. If she says yes, get her phone number and call her back after you get the times the events start and let her know the best time to pick her up, and get her address of course. Ask what the cross streets are where she lives and make sure you know how to get to her place, check out a map. Remember it is a numbers game, don't limit yourself to one girl, look to make friends with several. Don't bother with any fancy restaurants for first dates at your age. Keep it simple. These are just some dating ideas I gave you. If a girl likes you doesn't really matter what you do. And.... turn off your cell phone once you are out!!! Have fun.

the thing is, in Dublin, Ireland, (from what i know) you ask a girl "will you meet me" then if she says yes you go and have a snog, and then from that, you ask her out! But i'm too shy a person to do that, so i 'm kinda lookin for something simple

Exactly, keep it simple, informal. Sporting events are often a lot of fun, and then go to an inexpensive place to eat after the event. If not too cold outside, pick up take away food and go to a park and eat outside following the game. If its a same moment thing, spontaneous thing, even asking to go to a coffee shop is cool.

thanks, but i'll change the sports bit, i don't like much sport

Point at her and yell "Suck my big black cock". It worked for Nelson Mandela.

For the love of god, give girls a break and don't ask em to a sporting game or match or whatever! I know some girls like it, but man, there are so many more interesting places to go, where you can get to know someone better. I mean, are the majority of young girls remotely interested in a football game? Nope!

My suggestions are:

Museum/Exhibitions (often cheap)
Going to a local park.
Going for something to eat.
the old cinema trip. (easy for slowly easing into getting to know someone, takes the pressure off if you can't think what to say)

If this girl likes you, just say; 'Do you want to do something at the weekend?' simple as that. she'll know what you mean. and perhaps be specific, so she knows you want more than just meeting her to kiss!

And, despite being shy, if you just let yourself go, and ask this girl out, you'll feel the wonderful feeling of being young and having the fun that you want/deserve to have. You cannae beat it! It will add to your confidence, even if she does say no. you will have asked and known that you actually took a chance instead of saying nothing and nothing changing! :)

Even though I'm a girl, I totally know how you feel. It's scary to ask someone out, isn't it?
All I can say is, take a chance! You will never know if you don't try. If you really like this girl, I know it's hard, but ask her out. It doesn't have to be some fancy dinner or anything like that. Just ask her to come over and watch some movies or something. That way it won't be so ackward. Trust me, this is normal! Good Luck!!

I was in the same situation as you a fair few years back. But now, (im 29) I have done way more women than all of my mates put together. I have stopped that now as my fiancee is supreme, a propper ex public school girl in a high end job near london. So, dont worry about it and you will be fine. Just dont get too pissed and make a twat of yourself.

1. cut a hole in a box

2. put your box in that box

3. have her open the box

And Thats The Way You Do It.

^ that was from SNL

im a girl so.....some girls think its sweet to be shy. try writing a note. thats the easiest thing i can think of since thats what most boys do to me.

You wanna know how to ask a girl out right?

Go up to her sometime and say:

Would you like to go out with me?

would a text substitute for a note

sometimes it's helpful to hang out with a small group of people first. you, her, your friend, their gf, one of her friends, etc. then while you're there, pay extra attention to her and start up a good converstion. get to know her more and see what her interests are. be flirty and clever and charming! compliment her! the great part about being in a group of people is there is no pressure and if things seem to be taking a turn for the worse there are other people around to converse with and kind of "save" you and then it's not awkward at all. but if you two have a good time, use what you learned and plan a day to do something she likes. approach her with something like "hey, i remembered when we all hung out the other day that you mentioned you really liked to play soccer so i thought maybe you'd want to go to the game with me this weekend. we could get some lunch first if you wanted." it's easy!

thanks for that its really good advice!!

I often find movies to be intriguing. Just sit in the VERY back and talk most of the movie. About anything or bring up topics from the movie. Most of all, try to make her laugh. Not that i personally (or genderly) know but girls love a guy with humor and a guy who makes them laugh. It makes them forget their worries and the "so-called problems" they have with their body.

GIRLS! Guys hate it when you say something is wrong with your body. GUys really don't care. A womans body is the sexiest thing to a man and if you bring up ONE bad thing the guy will ALWAYS and i mean always think about it when he sees you. So don't bring it up and he never notices.

First actually get a backround relationship started, by becoming her friend, and nothing more. Just talk daily, then after about a week or two (seems long, but if u dont wait, you wont get her) ask her out to movies AFTER you end your daily conversation with her

hey bob.. its about time you show some respect.. nelson mandela is worlds greatest freedom fighter... im from south africa . i would know.

ok i think that we should stop talking bout nelson mandela!! kk!!

anyway the thing is, i already asked this girl out through a text!! and i picked a great time too!! turns out she's goin on a six week trip to austrailia!!!! argh!!!! i'm so pissed off!!

ask her what shes doing on the day you plan to go out on then if she says nothing ask her to go somewhere ewith you. make sure you dont emply it as a 'friendship hang out' thing. hope this helps.

Brilliant! :) The simplicity of it all! Good advice. :)

Take a chance. Do what comes natural. Find out what she likes. Roll with it.

You should Ask her for her number and then text her ...even if your in the same room as her , ask her if she will be your girlfriend she will either Text you back or run up to you , i am a girl and i feel very good for my self,as before i kinda like 2 guys and they both liked me so they were both asking me out i felt very happy that 2 friends wud sorta argue over me in the end i chose 1 of them to stay with and we were very happy ! she is sure to say yes ! x

Write her a poem! That's what I did.

no offense but thats kinda uh weird

Go as friends first if your nervous. Take her to a spot you know she'll like just the two of you as "Friends" and work your way up to a second date. Make sure its a place that you can talk, show her your romantic and if all goes well tell her how you feel. If you need help get her girlfriends on your side, girls always consult their girlfriends.