is this true?

For most yes IMO, experiment and you will find out for yourself.

by performing that kind of thing does it make you gay?

or they do it for the hell of it so they can pleasure themselves just like girls?

is that wrong to do or no?

Of course it doesn't make you gay. It is just a masturbation technique, you're not getting a penis inserted so there's is nothing gay about it. If your girlfriend is up to it, she can be the one in charge. Some girls like the power play of it.

sounds like some fag shit.

Just a word of warning, my freind Jon got fingered up the arse whilst been blown by a girl, he lost wood almost immediately and has never been the same since. Not gay or anything, he just can't look anyone in the eye anymore and has an overwelming feeling of guilt all the time.

don't use wedding finger either, bad karma

I like callos response, ditto to what he said.

Thats Wrong...