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I think I am in love with a co-worker Part V
Well, it seems most of you were right. This girl completely mind-f**ked me and I feel like sh*t. We went out twice over the weekend. Once to lunch and then ice skating the next day. I called her last night and asked her if she wanted to do something in the next couple of days but she told me that she thought I was a really nice guy and she enjoyed working with me but didn't think things would work out. I feel like I've been in hell for the past 15 hours. Some advice for anyone out there in a similar situation as me: just get out before you get too emotionally involved, you'll thank yourself. What I'm confused about is how quickly she changed her mind. Our lunch Saturday lasted probably two and half hours as we just sat in the restaurant and talked. She told me to call her that night and we talked for a good hour and a half and she seemed really interested. Then on Sunday we both had a ball skating together. Then it was just like all of a sudden she said "f**k this guy." Anyway any advice on how to get over this, I don't know what to do. By the way, I'm kind of a shy guy when it comes to asking girls out and flirting. I'm not the sort who will just go out and find a girl in one night. Thanks for any help.
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sisophous (3738)
2006-12-19 17:21:02
You're beating a dead horse and making a mountain out of a mole hill. In the future, lower your expectations when it comes to women and dating. If you act too excited, too needy, it can turn women off. You have to be yourself, keep it very low key and let it flow. There are zillions of women out there, move on to another one. Dating is all about finding who is compatible, who shares similar interests, it isn't just about looks. If you feel emotional pain there is a healing power that works wonders, it is called "time". You can also feel better if you get out there and approach another women. There are a lot of women out there who are fickle, don't know what they want, and go from hot to cold overnight. You aren't a pyschiatrist and don't even attempt to get in their heads. Consider yourself lucky, wash your hands of her and find another girl. Give the average looking girls a chance. Too many guys keep hitting on the cutest girls who often are the most shallow and not as much fun to be around. Good luck!
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Rory2424 (4424)
2006-12-19 19:06:34
Well thanks, btw, she is really good looking but that definitely isn't the only reason I went after her. She has so many other great qualities. I don't feel like I was acting needy or too excited either. I may have seemed like it with what I typed on here but didn't show it to her. Anyway, I realize what a mistake I made now by essentially wasting three months of my life pining over this girl. Well, live and learn I guess.
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sisophous (3738)
2006-12-19 20:06:48
@: Rory2424
There is no mistake made by you in sacrificing three months. That is a learning experience, and you are now wiser for it. A mistake is marrying the wrong person, getting a girl pregnant or staying in a relationship with someone who is abusive or destructive. Please consider the girls who are just average in looks, many are single, looking, appreciative and have a lot to offer.
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roger49 (3711)
2006-12-20 00:58:19
Sorry man, looks like I advised you wrong, but sisophous is right, you've just gotta let time do it's thing, and going for a walk and drinking a little bit never hurts, but if I remember correctly you're under twenty-one, so maybe find something non-alcoholic, although I do find that nothing makes me feel quite as good as the alcohol does.
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smithee (4389)
2007-01-05 17:01:44
you have way too many parts to this story.
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