I think I am in love with a co-worker Part V http://isitnormal.com/story/6007/ you have way too many parts to this story. http://isitnormal.com/story/6007/#comment-51733 2007-01-05 17:01:44 Sorry man, looks like I advised you wrong, but sisophous is right, you've just gotta let time do it's thing, and going for a walk and drinking a little bit never hurts, but if I remember correctly you're under twenty-one, so maybe find something non-alcoholic, although I do find that nothing makes me feel quite as good as the alcohol does. http://isitnormal.com/story/6007/#comment-48487 2006-12-20 00:58:19 There is no mistake made by you in sacrificing three months. That is a learning experience, and you are now wiser for it. A mistake is marrying the wrong person, getting a girl pregnant or staying in a relationship with someone who is abusive or destructive. Please consider the girls who are just average in looks, many are single, looking, appreciative and have a lot to offer. http://isitnormal.com/story/6007/#comment-48439 2006-12-19 20:06:48 Well thanks, btw, she is really good looking but that definitely isn't the only reason I went after her. She has so many other great qualities. I don't feel like I was acting needy or too excited either. I may have seemed like it with what I typed on here but didn't show it to her. Anyway, I realize what a mistake I made now by essentially wasting three months of my life pining over this girl. Well, live and learn I guess. http://isitnormal.com/story/6007/#comment-48428 2006-12-19 19:06:34 You're beating a dead horse and making a mountain out of a mole hill. In the future, lower your expectations when it comes to women and dating. If you act too excited, too needy, it can turn women off. You have to be yourself, keep it very low key and let it flow. There are zillions of women out there, move on to another one. Dating is all about finding who is compatible, who shares similar interests, it isn't just about looks. If you feel emotional pain there is a healing power that works wonders, it is called "time". You can also feel better if you get out there and approach another women. There are a lot of women out there who are fickle, don't know what they want, and go from hot to cold overnight. You aren't a pyschiatrist and don't even attempt to get in their heads. Consider yourself lucky, wash your hands of her and find another girl. Give the average looking girls a chance. Too many guys keep hitting on the cutest girls who often are the most shallow and not as much fun to be around. Good luck! http://isitnormal.com/story/6007/#comment-48407 2006-12-19 17:21:02