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I don't understand
I'm an eighteen year old guy. I've never been told to my face by girls how I look but I've heard through hearsay that girls have called me hot, handsome, and cute, yet I've never had a girlfriend. I'm funny and make girls laugh all the time. I have never had a serious girlfriend. I'm not sure why. In high school I was pretty shy and never even asked a girl out. Recently though I asked a girl out and we went out a couple of times and I thought we were both having fun and all of a sudden she said she didn't want to go out again. Am I missing something? Is there some sort of secret to getting a girlfriend?
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you might be missing something its hard to judge on here just ask another one out keep trying youll get there
You have to go out with a handfull of girls to likely find one who is fun to be around. Compatibility is finding the person who you enjoy being around. Not all guys click with the same girls. I've dated girls who I could tell within minutes I no longer wanted to see for various reasons. Some chatted endlessly about past boyfriends, some came with an attitude problem, some appeared disinterested, some just didn't have the same interests as I have. Guys for the most part play the role of the seeker, the approacher, whereas girls are more apt to play the passive role and to be pursued. This isn't always the case but in most it is. So......... you have to ask them if they'd like to join you for lunch or any event, activity. I always liked to ask girls to go to lunch at a diner, since it is very informal, no pressure, and I got a booth and got to talk to her privately. First date, keep it simple, preferably during the daytime and very short too. There is far less stress during the daytime and you can always step it up later if you both click. It is a numbers game. Guys who are in relationships that are strong are ones who have dated around and selected who they like being around the most. Give the average looking girls a chance, don't just look for the cutest girls. Many average looking girls are the most fun to be around, looking for a guy, and have the most to offer.
#1 secret = big cock
#2 don't be a sisophous and act like you know everything, it is a turn off.
LOL at Claro^^^^^^^^^^
I have like the exact same problem, I've got loads of female mates too who always tell me that im cute n good looking n ive got a great personality, yet i cant seem to settle with a lass, am i missing something?? lol:(
You must be a freezer than... you were just talking to your girlfriends
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