a polygamist is someone who has more than one spouse not someone who "loves" more than one person,and how do you tell when you "love" someone or if you just have a temporary "crush" on someone you may have something in common with or someone you think is attractive,but if you truley believe you are in love with this person or people then you are going to have to make a choice sooner or later and nothing is going to get done if you just *fanicize* about these people and what could or should be...TAKE ACTION!