kick him in his f*cking ass, and launch him out the front door. Life is cruel. He should have learned that lesson at the age of 13 and maybe he wouldn't be a flamer today. But u shouldn't give a shit if he's gay or not, he is still ur son. wat u should care about is why the f*ck he's still mooching off of u. Good luck.

He has 2 masters degree but they are rare degrees that have no job relevancy. I want my son out of the house, but I want him straight BEFORE he leaves. You mentioned something about he wouldn't be gay if he learned what at 13? HOW CAN I MAKE HIM STRAIGHT? Most have friends to depend on, but he doesn't have any friends. He says he doesn't like people at all.

You can get him to leave the house but you cant make him straight.

damn ur a bitch i mean i get it that u want him out but that"sinful gay" part is like omg if hes gay hes gay deal with it n get over it.its his life n he'll live it however he wants to.

You can't make a gay man straight, but you CAN make an unemployed man homeless. Kick baby bird out of the nest.

To mommy4000, My father was a military man, so I learned my lessons the hard way growing up, (which is probably why I am 26 yrs old with a 7 yr old and a 4 old and am seperated from my wife of 5 yrs - because I'm stubborn). But the 3 most important lessons I learned before the age of 13 were; 1.) That MOST people are monkeys, or clones and are unreliable, 2.) That if u r going to make anything out of ur life u have to do it on ur own, and 3.) the most important is that u can't trust anyone. Maybe if u hadn't pampered him while he was growing up in his teenage years (and don't even tell me that u didn't pamper him, cuz he's in his 30's and still lives with u, and I don't even know u and i know he was pampered) maybe he wouldn't be a flamer, (or maybe I'm wrong and he would have had homosexual interests anyway, either way pampering him didn't help any) and he definetly has issues of being alone (as I like to say u should have learned to severe the tie between u and him, so cut the umbilical cord already). < continued . . .

< continued . . . As for the part about turning him straight, I think ur stuck with him the way he is, but that doesn't mean u should love him any less just because he likes men, just playfully bug him about wanting grandchildren to carry on the family name. So why don't u sit down over a cup of tea or coffee and talk to him about how u feel, and wat he needs to do to get the hell out of ur house, as quickly as he can. Good luck and Have a Happy Holiday.

The CrazyMofo

He is gay to bad. Y' know you can link this problem to your self. Let him express him- self

Give him a date and tell him to be out by then.

as for 'HOW TO I MAKE HIM STRAIGHT?'

YOU don't. If he wants to hump a man, let him.
you kinda sound like a homophobe. but please get over it. i could see a man living with his mother IF he is mentally retarded, in a bad situation with his life partner at the time, some sudden finacial difficulties or possible natural disaster (fire, earthquake, hurricane, etc.) other than that, NO!

learn to say NO! if he can't get a great job, get him off his ass and at least workin at Micky D's (McDonalds) or something.

im 15, and i know better than that, i know i sure as hell dont want to be stuck at home at that age.


but after all of that i have a ?. Are you a Widow? when and if you answer i have more NICE input.

Thanks, Angel ™

You CANT change the fact that hes gay but you can kick him out

My moms boyfriend is 35 and he still lives with his mom, He has 2 different majors, and working on a third.

Tell him get out fag. Vigorously push him out into the real world,MAKE HIM get a job. Do something or he'll continue to sit there like a lazy bum

Heyylooo...:D :D im tyring to beat smithee... gimmie 3 months and ill win :D

tell im hes a sad lona

Its your house so just chuck him out along with his 24" arse dildo, preferably chuck him in front of a large arctic lorry with failing brakes.

Then... sit back and finger yourself.