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Is It Normal?
What do you think?
Can one of you tell me how this works
I am majorly in love with a girl and she loves me as much as I love her, but we aren't going out because she says it might not work because I live like 53 miles from here, my question is: Is it normal for two people to be in love but not be together?
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First of all, how old are you? If your not old enough to drive yet I can see why it might not work, but if you can, 53 miles isn't that far.
53 miles is too far for most relationships. That is roughly a one hour 15 minutes drive and manageable likely on weekends only, and costly over time. It isn't too far to have a fling or an affair, actually it is safer that way. Distances have a way of killing relationships, one person has to eventually move otherwise the bond will fade. If one of you can't make the move to be around the other, it is best to let it go. As for love and not being together, yes it is normal, but extremely difficult to maintain the intense feelings for long. Sorry about the bad news, just my experiences.
honestly, distance doesnt matter at all. my boyfriend lives 60 miles away and we've been together for over 2 years. its working out great, love really can do crazy things :) so if you like her that much i think you guys can make it work too.
that is where your wrong you have never been in LOVE, that is why you believe it won't last, i'm sorry for you.
move in with her: problem solved right?
If you really like eachother it'll be worth the trip. Tell her that. OK, wo you live an hour's drive away. Frankly I can see some advantages there.
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