Can one of you tell me how this works http://isitnormal.com/story/6068/ If you really like eachother it'll be worth the trip. Tell her that. OK, wo you live an hour's drive away. Frankly I can see some advantages there. http://isitnormal.com/story/6068/#comment-56835 2007-01-20 08:15:14 move in with her: problem solved right' http://isitnormal.com/story/6068/#comment-52116 2007-01-06 16:55:34 that is where your wrong you have never been in LOVE, that is why you believe it won't last, i'm sorry for you. http://isitnormal.com/story/6068/#comment-49777 2006-12-28 01:33:29 honestly, distance doesnt matter at all. my boyfriend lives 60 miles away and we've been together for over 2 years. its working out great, love really can do crazy things :) so if you like her that much i think you guys can make it work too. http://isitnormal.com/story/6068/#comment-49135 2006-12-23 05:49:13 53 miles is too far for most relationships. That is roughly a one hour 15 minutes drive and manageable likely on weekends only, and costly over time. It isn't too far to have a fling or an affair, actually it is safer that way. Distances have a way of killing relationships, one person has to eventually move otherwise the bond will fade. If one of you can't make the move to be around the other, it is best to let it go. As for love and not being together, yes it is normal, but extremely difficult to maintain the intense feelings for long. Sorry about the bad news, just my experiences. http://isitnormal.com/story/6068/#comment-49005 2006-12-22 13:16:50 First of all, how old are you' If your not old enough to drive yet I can see why it might not work, but if you can, 53 miles isn't that far. http://isitnormal.com/story/6068/#comment-48997 2006-12-22 12:52:41