Been married long? Sounds like you have a problem with dominance. She must dominate you. And you being the Beta Male will let your breeding female mate with others. You are not a freak.

What you say is really interesting. Where can I read more about that? Do I have to remain a Beta Male? I don`t like that idea.

This secret knoweledge is hidden in many books. There is an old book called "Sexlife of the Animals". A 50's book aboot Primal Evolution and Biology. I have it at home. Also, study more pornography.

It sounds as if you have a desire to be a "cuckold". I suggest you visit www.adultcommunitiesonline.com/forums/cuckold/index.html
for more information.This desire is not unusual.

Note, I did not censor my last post. Replace * with *c* *u* *c* *k*.Lets see if this works.

Is cuckold really sensored?

CUCKOLD

Guess so. that is wierd.

C U C K OLD?
OR
C U C K HOLD??? Not sure.

I to have this fantasy and have had it even with girls I knew before my wife. From what I find on the net this is called wanting a hotwife. Somehow knowing that other men want my wife makes her that much hotter to me. Every man wants a woman that is a sexual dynamo and sharing her with another man turns some of us on. I have thought about this so much that I know I would love to have it happen, as long as I get to watch and participate. Is it normal? I don't think anything this radical is normal...but I still like it.

I also get very turned on by other men wanting my wife and after ten years of gentle persuasion she tried sex with anouther man and enjoyed it a LOT!
Now we have a friend who visits us and spends the night in bed with my wife, I usually watch the first time they do it< I love seeing them forget that I am there and focus on pleasuring each other >and then spend the night on the couch listening to the grunts, moans and creaking bed springs coming from our bedroom. This has given us great sexual pleasure in our marriage and I believe has increased our love for each other, as for is this normal what is normal?

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I'm an attractive married woman in my late thirties. For years my husband would flaunt me in front of other men. He would make me wear very sexy dresses in front of his friends, and even had me play strip poker with some of them on occasion. Of course some of the men became interested, and started making me offers. This turned my husband on a great deal! When I finally ended up sleeping with another man, then other men, my husband had a hard time dealing with it. It was then me who really liked it, and wanted more of it! Now he has a hard time trusting me whenever I'm in any situation where there are other men, though the thought of me sleeping with them still turns him on tremendously...like nothing else! I just thought I'd share this with those of you who are considering trying this sort of thing. You better be sure you can handle it, if you do! I love my husband, and respect his wishes a great deal. Still he encouraged me, and other men in ways that awakened a whole other side of me that I didn't even know existed. It can be very difficult to control those awakened urges.

Yes Ithink it is very normal. Statistically, app. 80% of all men have done or still do fantasize about watching their wife with another man.I myself fall into this catagory as well but I know that I wouldn't be able to handle the reality of it. I have ED because of medicine that I am taking so mostly I get my wife off with a vibrator, however I do get partially hard when she's bossy in bed or makes comments about my penis. (diminuatively speaking of course)

For some reason METHOSjr. just turned me on.

For starters,you cant be jealous for no apparent reason.It maybe that you feel threatened by someone you think she's attracked to and try to roleplay that person for her.Is it always the same man you imagine her with or just another man?
And it sounds like your as curious about her activities as well your own.Maybe you should ask alittle more about her past and see what happens in that department.Does she have toys,things to play with...and so on.Is she silent with her sexuality,mix it up a little ask man.ASK HER....

Fantasizing about your wife or girlfriend having sex with other men is pretty normal, though the percentage of men who actually follow through is very low.
Also there is a big difference between being a cuckhold and wanting a hotwife. Cuckholds get off on the feeling of being humilated and having their wives sexually dominant. A guy who wants his wife to play gets off on the prestige that accrues to him having a sexy and uninhibited wife.

This is a interesting thread.. I have a similar but opposite fantasy.. I have many different variations but basically is that my wife is married to some an other guy and I am doing her ether infront of or with the encouragement of her husband. I really get going when I imagine I'm there only to make her pregnant.

Reading the responses to the original question I suppose all of these fantasies are normal. I also can get unusually jealous but I don't get turned on as many describe. I just feel insane and aggressive..

After thinking about I suppose I should ask? Do you think I am normal??

The issue is this. Most married men want to have sex very often. The average american married couple has sex 3 times a month. (this is the average the 2 times a week folks a lot of times are lying specially if they have kids...but they do exist) This frustration makes men fantasize about their wives being these great whores that would fuck all these men and of course them. But in reality most married women do not meet male expectations when it comes to frequency of sex(this is not a misogenistic comment but rather a statement of fact). It is simply a fantasy that really aims at spicing the imagination. Most married men masturbate quite a bit because they really don't get the amount of sex they want. The fantasy makes their wives these whores that need to be conquered. The thrill of the hunt is resurrected in that a hotwife really belongs to no one and must be reconquered everyday. This fantasy just shows the state of unhappiness that men have when it comes to sex in marriage. For those who are single you will soon discover the truth of this fact. Sadly.

I have had the hotwife fantasy for a very long time. My wife eventually shared the fantasy as well. We would both get off at the thought of another man satisfying himself inside my wife. The thought of her coming home to me after just having sex was a wild turn on. One night, it happened, she was out with her friends and didn't come home until like 3 in morning. I was excited all night waiting for her because I had a good idea she was having sex. When she got home, it wasn't what either of us expected. She was sore from getting try adn they were both too drunk to orgasm. It still turned me on a great deal and I masturbated many many times thinking about it. Since that was not what we expected, she tried again. This time the guy came in her and she came home right after wards. That had to be the biggest turn on ever in my whole life. It was everything an d more that I imagined it would be.

The end of this is that I am now divorced. Not necessarily due to that, our marriage was doomed anyways. I have a new girlfriend who is still married, but seperated from her husband. He doesn't know about us and she has gone back to him a few times. Although she has made it clear she is not into the hotwife stuff, I still find myself getting off at the thought of her having sex with her husband when she goes back.

Not sure how many relationships can survive when a 3rd person is brought in for that purpose. If your at all worried, don't do it, keep it a fantasy.

i have a beautiful and sex asian wife and i love to watch her have sex with hung black men. at first she was reluctant but now she likes it.

we have been friends with a couple for nearly 20 years. ( since school ) . but things have changed over the last 4 months, after a boozy night out we all ended up jumping into bed together and had the most amazing night. since then we have met up as often as possible to carry on the fun. the only thing is my husband is affraid that i am going to fall in love with, or leave him for his mate. the problem lies in the fact he has an enormous penis,
( over 10" and very thick ) far bigger than anything i have had before. when we all stripped steve nearly fainted when our friends wife warned me to be careful with him, as he is very large and hard and will hurt me, i laughed and said " i'll be ok. but our jaws hit the floor when we saw him naked. i love steve and have no wish to leave him, how can i reasure him?

be careful what you wish for!!!! for years I talked to my wife about acting this out before she finally tried it. in the last year we have progressed from her nervously trying it, to her acting out cream pie fantasies, and forcing me to watch her with men. luckily for me we both really enjoy it, and can handle her activities with other men.