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Minute MAn
I am currently in a relationship with this guy for about 8 months now and I can count on my hand the number of times we've had sex. Every time we have sex he cums within the 1st 5 minutes, then he gets up and puts his clothes on, on top of that he doesn't have a large penis or nothing so its like I'm not even there. I really like him, but I am not getting satisfied. Is he cheating on me? Is it normal for me to want to stay with him and find someone else to have sex with?
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This seems a common problem today. Not only is he impotent he is sexually inexperienced as well. you have 2 choices tell him your not satisfied and see a professional to fix this problem or 2 get someone else it depends on how much you like him as to what you do but dont let things comtinue as they are.
You didn't say you are married, so you have open choices. You may want to give him a chance, let him know you aren't happy, he probably already knows this but doesn't care. If you don't see a change, and very soon after speaking to him, find someone else. To me, he sounds selfish, cold, and not someone to stay around, but that's just from the story you posted. Or, you can dump him now and get another guy. Why deny yourself pleasure????? This guy is not the match for you.
tell him this don't let him walk all over you. Women need their pleasure. In fact I'd rather a woman get her pleasure then me, she deserves it.
easy you're right
@cabinet70

i dont believe her man is impotent. impotence is where an man is unable to:
a) obtain an errection
b) be able to maintain an errection

it sounds to me like this guy is lacking in stamina, he is probably deeply ashamed of how quick he cums.
i have to ask, how old are you both?

if you want him to last longer you could try getting him to buy thicker condoms, and you could also try being on top.
being on top allows you to control the speed, and the depth. slow things down a little and see how he goes.

if all else fails then you should ask him to satisfy you first. introduce him to the fun of foreplay

hope this helps
He's certainly not a loving man. You should talk to him about this. You poor girl! That's just got to be awful for you...I know because I was married to someone like that...ugh!

You like him now but, if you stick around it'll just cause you alot of pain and resentment. This guy is just out to please himself.

You need a man who is into pleasing you as well. You can't be spending all your time being frustrated like this. It's just wrong!
Maybe you disgust him and he just wants to get out of there.
Try a douche so you are not so stanky.
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