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How do I tell a girl I love her
Well, there's this girl I've fallen in love with. She's scared to get into another relationship right now because her last boyfriend broke her heart. I fell in love with her while she was still dating him and since she broke up with him we've went on a couple of dates but I think she was scared of getting involved with another guy so soon so we haven't gone out since then. I have really strong feelings for her though. I feel like I just have to tell her how I feel. I really want to tell her that I love her and would never hurt her because I think she is afraid of getting hurt again. Should I tell her that I love her? Thanks for the advice. BTW any advice from any girls out there would be especially appreciated, how would you girls out there feel if you weren't in a relationship with a guy but he told you he loved you. Thanks
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crazyme (4954)
2006-12-28 23:07:26
I'm a girl so I think you should tell her how you feel...but first, tell her that you're not pushing her or rushing her, and you will wait for her until she's ready. Then tell her how you feel. Good luck
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sisophous (3738)
2006-12-29 13:17:22
Absolutely, positively NO!!!!!!!!! Do not tell a girl you love her after dating her a couple of times, it will freak her out, possibly cause her to run. First, what you are experiencing is infatuation, it is NOT love. True love develops over time, not after even a couple of months, it takes time and involves total sacrifice and commitment. Lust, infatuation and strong feelings for someone can occur at anytime, even during the first date. What I suggest is to tell her you really enjoy her company and have a great time being with her. That is enough to send the message, no more is necessary. And,...... have fun.
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dragoon188 (5130)
2007-01-07 01:12:37
Yea seriously, I was dating a chick last summer for about 5 months, and I start to hint that I love her, and that ended our relationship (which was gonna end soon cause I was tired of her kicking me in the balls every single time... literally, i had to miss alot of soccer and baseball games because of it...)

So, DONT TELL HER YOU FOOL!
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Akemi_Kunoichi (5426)
2007-01-21 15:29:51
Dude, I'm a girl. And man, if you love her that much, than you better tell her. If you don't, than she might end up getting with another guy. And you'll be thinking the rest of your life, 'what if...', ya know? And I have met very few guys out there that would actually care for me as much as you do for her. I bet she'd be glad to hear it. As long as you don't put on a sly smile while asking her, that'll screw it all up. Good luck!
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BigBertha (5570)
2007-01-30 13:46:10
Have you known this girl for awhile? I think this makes a big difference.. My first instinct as a female is for you to tell her you love her..make sure you are very CLEAR though when telling her that you will wait for her to come around if she just needs time to bounce back from her previous relationship. Also make sure you dont try and kiss her or anythign when you do it because she will probably think your lying and just want something physical from her. Just look her straight in the eye and tell her what your thinking. Best of Luck.
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BrokenInside (5867)
2007-02-12 13:50:01
First of all you have to ensure your not going to scare her away! Me, Personally..If i had just come out off a relationship tht left me heartbroken, i'd probley just think you was lying.. She instead off saying the words, As words don't mean alot.Show her! Need any advice on how to show her..Contact me!
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kitty26 (4233)
2007-02-19 20:17:22
actually i understnad why the girl doesnt want to be in another relationship, the same thing happened to me. my first boyfriend had hurt me so much and that's making me stay away from other guys. i know it might seem odd or something but once someone hurts you its hard to put yourself out there again. you should tell her because it's best to be honest. tell her there's no pressure and let time heal everything. hope this helps.
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IAmYourEvilid (6371)
2007-03-05 14:18:56
I'm a girl and I've had a guy tell me before that he was in love with me and it freaked me out because we weren't even dating or involved in any way other than friendship. So yea I think telling her you love her when you two aren't even together would be a bad idea.
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Danny50010 (6400)
2007-03-10 23:44:41
"I love you" thats how
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Shavemeslowly (5177)
2007-03-10 23:58:11
don't tell her too soon, it could be freaky/fake/corny sounding
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DoNotTrustMe (6560)
2007-03-19 09:07:24
Punch her a few times to show her how in lover with her you are.
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kristina_696969 (6736)
2007-03-23 15:26:01
My personnal opinion...you caught her on a rebound! If tha's the case take your time...don't rush any thing! I did that and it was the worst nightmare I ever had. The relationship was good at first but once i took a real look at where we were going I wondered "how the hell did we ever get here to begin with. " Ened up splitting up...even after having a wedding planned and paid for!
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mahamehdi (6508)
2007-04-10 18:20:02
yea ima gurl.......and my advice to you .....is flirt with her a lil, tell her she looks nice, tell her if she wants to eat lunch with u..the closer she will get to u, the more comfotable she would be with u and that is wen u should ask her out, but first question her, ask her if she is ready for a relationship if not wait a little longer but if she is pop the question..dont wait too long , u dont want her with another guy
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itsalwaysfreakingnormal (7202)
2007-04-11 09:41:29
Because of the effect of dark energy (gravity-opposing force) which makes matter fly apart the universe is always expanding. At the start or birth or the universe, 13.7 billion years ago, it was very hot (10^27K) but seeing as it is in permanant expansion it is always getting colder, as the particles carrying heat and energy (photons etc) spread out. If dark energy has the same effect on the universe as it is currently having, the universe will keep expanding and freeze.
We are all going to die.
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cooleobec (7641)
2007-04-16 02:07:23
first tell her u just want to be friends then thats when u make ur move
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Xo-moi-oX (8050)
2007-05-04 15:52:42
@: itsalwaysfreakingnormal
wtf, are you high?
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Xo-moi-oX (8050)
2007-05-04 15:54:22
that wasnt to you, whoever wrote this thing, and yea, i'm a girl, and yeah just like what mahamehdi said, just flirt with her, become closer with her, don't say you love her, wait until she's really ready for a relationship.
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Normality (8124)
2007-05-04 22:42:28
So....You went out a FEW times and now you LOVE her? Sounds like an ATTRACTION to me. If you actually LOVE her, then you have issues.

Unless of course, you've been friends with her for quite a long time, THEN you dated her, and you've known her long enough to fall in love with her. That I could see.

No, don't tell her. Control those feelings and wait till you've dated her for at least a year.
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OuCh_ThAt_HuRt (8544)
2007-05-27 13:24:44
OPEN your mouth and say.."I L_O_V_E you"
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Mimir2 (3348)
2007-05-27 14:41:57
I came up with a mathematical formula for how to fall in love normally.

Can't find it any longer though but i do remember that really big variables were amount-of-time-together and if-living-together.
And there was also the square root of something and the second power.

Once i have refound the formula and perfected it i will have the answer to every question there is regarding normality of love in the universe!

Go Mimir!
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namelesstosay (9634)
2007-08-02 16:56:06
dont tell her.. your gonna make her cry
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MissWhoKnows (9891)
2007-08-13 02:04:59
okay i'm a girl. and i'm going to give you advice. =) Well wat you can do is try writing a poem, or write a short descripiton of how you feel about her and what you like about her. and say that you love her in the middle of it and say that you would never hurt her in Any way. and continue on on how that she doesn't have to rush in anything if she isn't ready yet. and that you will wait until she is rdy. And give it to her in person or e-mail it. or something :P lol
Good luck!
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