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I'm an 18 y/o male and recently fell in love. I love my girlfriend alot and she feels the same way. Although she took my virginity, she has been with a few other guys in the past but honestly assures me I am the best in bed (no worries this isn't an insecure penis issue). Everyonce in awhile I get sad in the fact that I wasn't the one that took her virginity. It really bothers me because I've always dreamed of taking the girl's virginity when I fell in love. I think I might be obsessing over this too much and there's nothing I can do about it. Is this normal?
Do you think it's normal?
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theBARTENDER (4902)
2007-01-04 01:48:41
The only thing that matters here is the fact, she is actually dating you in this moment. And, there is no need to worry about past relations. Only think about future leading possibilities of getting along well, both.
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lucyy (4866)
2007-01-05 13:42:01
Yeah thats normal to want to share a special first time experience like that with her, and its really sweet. But i think getting upset and obsessing over it is uneccisery, she's not a virgin and never will be again, try to tell yourself that and enjoy everything you have with her.
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misogynecologist (6137)
2007-03-10 15:00:51
she's lying to you. the guy who took her virginity regularly gave her 20-30 orgasms each session and she thinks about him every time she's with you, which is the only reason she gets off, thimble dick.
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rhythmunbroken (6630)
2007-03-15 21:07:04
Your feelings are normal but 99% chance you won't stay with this girl anyway. And then you won't be a virgin and the older you get the fewer virgins there are. And once you have one, you probably won't want another cuz they just aren't as fun or good at sex for obvious reasons. Plus it typically hurts the girl the first time. Do you want to give the woman you love the gift of pain she will always remember? Or just love that is pure from your heart?
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