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Asking a girl out
Im so nervous to ask this girl out. What do i do. and is it normal to be nervous to ask a girl out. If i get a fat NO then i will get humiliated and the laughing stock of the day.


Help please!!!

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I hope you get miserably embarrassed.
Calm down!!....don't worry. If this is your first time asking this girl out (and it sounds like it is), you can work at it by practicing it and doing sort of a mock one with a friend. If she is your friend and you know her well, chances are she will say yes.
Yes, it is normal to be nervous and you are afraid of rejection which is causing you anxiety. If you keep it very small, lower your expectations you will find the nervousness will slowly fade and asking her will not be difficult. I suggest asking her to go for lunch, something very informal that will not pressure her nor yourself. I like to go to diners and get a booth because it is private, relaxing, inexpensive and easy to talk. I also like spontaneity, ask her to go with you right then. Or, you can ask her to go for a cup of coffee, no girl will find that imposing upon her. There's no pressure this way on either of you, and if she says I'd like to but am busy, ask her for tomorrow. Girls eyes often light up as they get flattered simply being asked and that you have interest in them. If you enjoy each others company, you can always plan something longer for another time, go to an event, at night or on the weekends. Try the lunch approach, works for me all the time even with married women because it isn't a threat and casual. good luck
It is very very normal and common to feel nervous about asking a girl out. If i were you i would try to get to know her first, have little conversations with her, see if you have any chemistry and try to get her to like you- be nice and be yourself.

Then ask her out.
BE ALL LIKE
"BITCH! LETS FUCK!"
AND SHELL BE LIKE "I LOVE THE DIRECT APPROACH :)"
AND START FUCKING HER HARD UP THE ASS RIGHT IN THE ASS IN THE MIDDLE OF THE HALLWAY AND THEN WHEN PEOPLE WALK BUY KILL EM AND FUCK THERE DEAD BODIES
tell her how you deeply feel or write her secret love notes
No!!!!! never do stuff like that.
Just ask her out..There's only one way to find out how she feels. If you ask her you could be so happy and if you don't then your always gonna be in the same position. Just go for it! You will be even more humilated if yu dnt take a chance!!!
Ok MOST of the stuff said is JUNK and Smithee dont be SO MEAN!
Just ask her out and if you get a no then you'll know she isn't interested but if you get a YES then you know she wants to go out with you!
Don't be afraid to ask her out. Just do it. the worst thing she can do i say no but you can't put yourself down like that. You have to go through life trying new things!!!

Good luck!!!
Yes it's normal but if she asks if any thing cool or exiting has hpend to you then LIE YOUR ASS OFF!!!!
yo im in the same problem theres a girl i like but i dont think she likes me i dont want to ask her out because ill probably be rejected and everyone will make fun off me for another school year the fuckers. anyways just try to calm down and maybe show her some attention(girls love that) and hang out with her freinds when you two become freinds thats when you pop the question
Personally, i think that you should just go for it, and the longer you put it off the angrier you are going to be at yourself later. If this is your first time than you are bound to be nervous. The first time is always the hardest and the sooner you get it over with the easier it will be the next time you ask someone out.
you should just go for it bcoz soon she is going 2 geta boyfriend and then you would feel like a pratt afer that so just go for it before it i too late ..x
Just do it, man. If it's a no, then it's a no. It doesn't really matter.
Your penis will soon fall off.
HEY IM ABOUT TO ASK OUT THIS GIRL AT SCHOOL AND IM NERVOUS TOO AND IF I GET A BIG FAT NO ILL BE HUMILIATED TOO
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