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I find this quite annoying
Well, to start off, I'd like to put this point blankly, I'm a lesbian and I find it very irritating that some men (i'm not saying all of them in general) will try to hook up with lesbians because they percieve them as attractive because of their sexual orientation. Is it that hard to understand that they do not find men attractive? Sometimes I find the urge to restrain myself from strangling those guys that deliberately flirt and try to get us to like men difficult. I hate the question "Hey would you ever try a guy?" The answer is strictly NO. I have an experience where male stalkers of mine had announced they would not stop flirting with me until I became heterosexual. Do you have any idea how infuriating that is? Well anyways, let's get down to the blank point question, is it normal to be infuriated by this? (Mature answers are appreciated)
Do you think it's normal?
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Please, you won't be a lesbian after you tried me out.
"Don't try me" what the hell you gonna do to me?
I can see why you get irritated but you may be overlooking something. Could it be you are surrounding yourself among immature guys or hanging around the wrong places where such men gather? Professional, respectable people respect privacy and wouldn't make condescending remarks. I've heard from many "young" gay girls who complained about such and most tend to keep to themselves and avoid talking to men. As a result, they are seen as unfriendly by a lot of guys. So, yes, I think it is normal to be infuriated, but hang around a different type of crowd and you will experience far less of it.
It really doesn't surprise me that once again we are hearing another rant on behalf of our resident man-hater. I can offer you no help in your dilemma because I am still shocked that any male would want go near you. Just try talking to them for five minutes and I'm sure they will realise what a shrill, whiney, irritating, obnoxious individual you are. Why not just tell them if they want sex with someone of similar build/smell/sexual prowess as yourself they can stop off at a local farm and ravish the bulls.
I'd call you a "fucker" back, but in your feminist head you would probably prefer "Love-maker".
you fucking slut
I find it funny that skybird gets so ticked off, so easily!
hope this helps.
lol
Go swallow some Tide.
=)
It is really stupid, however; because there are plenty of women like myself, who are bi. Not just one, but two for the price of one. If the guy does that, hun, just tell him to fuck off and ditch'em, you know, just leave the area, leave the room.
Also, buy yourself a gun and learn how to use it, so if you've a stalker, you can scare the shit out of him.
The funny thing is, when I tell guys I'm a yaoi-fan, they get purely disgusted in not only that, but me, yet they want us to drop our drawers, despite our orientation.
On another note, the lesbian thing has me confused, because they use fake-penis to get off, with the attraction of another girl doing it, I understand that, but the age old instinct of penatration is still there, why?
On the gay aspect, the males that flame and turn themselves into women, that's an acomplishment, but their partner, if he wanted a woman, why didn't he just get a real one? Instead of an alter, engineered one?
(I am new here and only 18, so I don't know if you will take my comments as mature, but...)
I have known a lot of guys who, for whatever reason (possibly an inferiority thing) have this idea that can "Cure" a lesbian of wanting to be with other girls. Maybe it is a masculine thing, I don't know, but many of them seem to think of lesbians as "threats to the brotherhood" or something.
Other guys just like the idea of hooking up with lesbians so as to maybe Watch (My ex was like that, when he found out I have the Mildest curiosity for other women...oddly he freaked when I suggested seeing Him with another Guy.)
Still others I have known have this idea that lesbians are as sexually agressive as they themselves are and think that they (the lesbians) will try to steal their girls from them.
I don't know, and please forgive me if I sound stupid. I am just guessing based on the kinds of guys I've known.
Do you like guys, I mean, as friends, or do you let them know that you don't care for them in general In Any Way? Some guys, if you are lesbian yet can like, get along with guys As Friends, will be less likely to push the sexual issues.
Just a thot
Tobra - Not mature maybe, but trying. :)
All I know from my experience is that men take a while to catch up to our maturity level. Don't take it so hard when they make fun of your sexual orientation.
Who gives a shit?
-quack