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Tryin to get this chick...

Hey, Im a 14 year old guy and, Im trying to ask this girl out but I don't know what to say, and im afraid if I mess it up, Ill never get with her again...unless Im lucky. None of this "Oh your too young to have a girlfriend...don't worry about it!". And what? Masterbate for the rest of my life? Thats pretty common on feedback from this site, all I need is a few pointers, Im in a deep hole right now, can someone help me? Thanks =)
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sisophous (3738)
2007-01-08 22:40:36
Overanalysis leads to paralysis. Your answer is actually predetermined so stop beating yourself about how to go about this and worrying about your approach. What you have to do is speak to her, preferably face to face and ask her if she would like to go someplace with you. I keep posting this suggestion repeatedly, that is, to ask her to go to lunch rather than going out at night that tends to build pressure and anxiety on a first date. Don't back her into a specific day and time, rather leave it open ended. Ask her if she would like to go with you on two particular days or in addition, even on the spot if you feel she is free.

Remember, if she is interested, she will go, bottom line. If she is not interested, indifferent or scared, she will come up with an excuse or decline outright. Many girls are apprehensive so don't take this as a slight. Also, don't take rejection or unacceptance to your offer personally, every guy goes through it and it has likely nothing whatsoever to do with you, rather to do with the girl you asked and her issues or likes, nothing which you can control.

You have nothing to lose by approaching her. Good luck, hope she accepts, if not, no loss to you.
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lizzie (4861)
2007-01-09 01:40:25
Come and get this chick you dirty lil' bastard.
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ladyoftheworld (4309)
2007-01-09 12:24:57
Sounds like you are lacking in confidence there, you have to believe in yourself more and dont cut yourself short there. Tell her how you feel, open up and let her know how much she means to you and then she can do one of two things, say yes or no, you have nothing to lose here and everything to gain, good luck mate, hope this helps
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DrSham (5677)
2007-03-02 19:56:20
You've answered you're own question pal.
masterbate furiously until you're 18.
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