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Is It Normal To Not Be Able To Have Sex?
Ok well I Can't HAve Sex I Don't Know y, I havent started my period yet but i can get one finger up there but i have a boyfriend and he wants to have sex but i dont want him to be embarrsed just encase he can't get it up me is it normal i'm 14 and havent started my period? When you start your period is it easier to have sex i know its painful but is it easier to get it up or am i just wierd and can't have sex Please leave comments Many Thanks
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one of the girls should help you with this one. lol. but 14. darling arnt u abit to young to be screwing already.

your vagina will pretty sensitive when you have your period. even more so for you cos you started having them
Hi, I think you are too young to think about having sex yet and please dont let your boyfriend put any pressure on you to have sex. Remember you are in control of your body and have the power to say no and if he doesnt like it maybe hes not the right one for you. Please wait until you have thought things through properly. You are too young, you haven't started your period yet which means your body is not properly prepared for sex and this could cause you a lot of pain and distress if you attempted to have sex. You will get your period soon, so wait and do things the right way, I wish you all the best, hope this helps
ha ha, you sexless bastard
If you havent started to period yet then your too young for sex
if you have not had your first period yet it means your body is not ready to have sex yet, you should wait a few years! And you should dump your boyfriend as you are just taking orders from him!
what the fuck only 14!!!!!!! ur the dumbest girl ive read about im a girl to but im 18 theres a BIG differnce if u have sex could fuck up ur whole life ull get teased at school parents might find out and ect...wait till at least moved outa the house, to me u sound like a Slut cause ur only 14!!!!!
Stupid girl.
Keep masterbating until you're 18 then you might be ready for sex.
As for your boyfriend he needs shooting.
@: paulii
get a dildo and keep stretching the hole until u can get any sized d*ck up u! it worked 4 me now im doin p*rn movies!
You should wait till your older, and sex wiv a tight virgina feels better for the guy, an WTF he mite not get it up there, cors he would... but u reali shudnt do it unless u feel ready... an only do it if u love him. u shudnt loose it to any1 you dont love.
Honey, BELIEVE ME on this, your body is not physically ready for sex yet. I lost my virginity at age 13 almost 14 and believe me, it'll fit, but it'll feel like you're being ripped in half. Only within the past year have I been able to enjoy sex. Wait a couple years until you're at the height of puberty. THEN your body will have caught up with your mind. And if you MUST try it, there is one word that you must teach your teen boyfriend: "FOREPLAY" you'll need it. BTW, don't be afraid if you bleed your first time. It's perfectly normal. So don't do it on white sheets and spread a towel under the sheets you use to catch any blood.
I didn't start mine until I was in the 9th grade, but idk about being easier b/c i never thought about sex until late 10 early 11th grade, I'm almost a senior now, so can't help ya on that part!!! lol
WoW you are too young too be having sex

kkthnx
You are 14 and want to have sex???? Do you realise that's like a baby wanting to eat steak and potatoes or a spotaneously turning into a gold bar? OR something? Eww...keep your legs closed...Your boyfriend is trying to turn your little ass out. Relax before you end up screwing everything with a penis and end up on Maury
14 year olds who try to have sex should get the belt instead.
I agree with Paulii. Jesus, I'm 15 and am not thinking of having sex for at least another two years.
Don't do it. And no, it's not normal.
You're too young, your boyfriend may need more self-discipline, and it's not normal.
too young
back off for a few years
wow that would take him forever to get you wet enough to insert. and uh 14 isnt too young, me and my girlfriend have done it.......like 4 times
sex is the devil unless you are married.
dont have sex till you are ready...

and dont go have sex with anyone

wait till you find someone you love
ram yourself in the cu nt with a pen and shout fcuk me fcuk me fcuk me...like the girl off the exorcist..that should loosen your tw@t up a bit. failing that put some lube on it and tease it open with a carrot...hehehe.. whats up doc ?
dont have sex until you get youre period and you feel ready at least thats when youre body is telling you youre biologically ready. i dont know about being mentally ready and socially resposible though at 14 but thats when i did it so im not going to be a hypocrite! if youre going to do it make sure he uses condoms aswell!
ok first off dont listen to those other dumb fucks that are telling you that ur ready. sweetie im 21 yrs old and i wasnt ready when i started having sex and i was 18. Ive had sex with only 2 guys and the first guy i was with him for a year and then the last guy i was with ive been with since 3 months after my 19th birthday and im still with him to this day and now we have a 4 month old baby and trust me i love my daughter to death but i wasnt ready for her or for sex and i wish i would have waited till i was married. no im not telling u to wait till ur married bc im not ur mother but as a mother im going to tell u not to have sex until ur completely 100% ready and u love that person and are with them for awhile and 0-8 months is not awhile. at 14 ur what in the 7th or 8th grade ur not ready for sex yet, sex can ruin ur life im not saying it ruined mine but it can, it can make u feel like less of a person and u can get so caught up with it that ur sleeping with anyone and everyone and once guys know that u have had sex u open up a whole new world of trouble, guys will say anything they can to get u out of ur pants and in bed with them so becareful and go talk to ur mom and if you dont feel comfortable with that then go talk to and adult that u do feel comfortable with and tell ur good for nothing bf to hit the road and go get his head checked. you both are too young to be having sex!!!
god, so many preteen hoes on the net, sadly i cant find em in my school...
lol, 14 years old? Girl, you are a slut.
dude! your pussy gets wider when the penis comes in, how the fuck do you think a baby's head can get outof there?
4 times? thats nothing to brag about f**khead. and 14 is way to young c**ksucker.
lol i had my period when i was in the 5th grade! i was 11! lol now im 15 and im not reading for sex now everytime i get horny i just finger myself try that untill ur like done with high school then go fall in love get a room n let him fvck the shit out of u lol
~*yes listen, dont do it yet, your body isnt fully developed and you might get a std(sexually transmited disease) cause your body cant control and disease that goes into your body yet. wait till you are older and more mature. please tell your boyfriend no. if he has a problem with it tell him to get a life and stay out of yours. your not ready, neither is your body.*~ be smart!
yup i strongly agree with you mama
I'd hold back until your period, and then I'd really think about it then, because you want a guy who doesn't wanna jam into you and get his satisfaction, but leave you hurting and despairing, you want a man who knows wtf he's doing and is willing, loving, to make your first time your best time, the first experience of something can turn you off if it has a negative or traumatic ordeal behind it. You want a very sexual encounter when you finally do lose your virginity.

So think hard, don't follow the crowd, and good luck.
Oops, I meant "sensual", sorry...
Lol'd

YOURE NOT OLD ENOUGH. k ty. *Cough* Sl*T *COUGH*
well im 13 i never tried fingeren myself until i was 12 i took my period when i was 11, i do it every night now, if i were you i would wait until i could finger myself and keep it goen for a while to open urself up a bit more, it will be really sore otherwise and will be more likely to bleed 1st time you have sex. just keep tryen u will get it sometime, i was scared 1st time and found it hard, but my ex bf done it 2 me 1st and then i found it easiyer, keep trying you WILL eventually get it. x0x
1st off, wait to have sex, its not worth it when you are 14, seriously, listen to that advice. i had just turned 13 when i lost my virginity, i regret being so young and not being with somebody who i truly loved.

2nd - no you can have sex, you are probably just not in touch with your body yet and not doing it correctly, anybody can have sex, but another thing is you need to be sexually arroused in order for it to actually be comfortable, although the first time is never comfortable.

3rd - if you dont listen to my advice, i can understand cuz i never listened either, at least use protection, even though you will most likely not get pregnant because you havent had your period (you can get pregnant before you start your period, because you start ovulating a month before your actually period comes for the first time) you still have to be careful for diseases.

but i really would not advise you to have sex especially if you havent even started your period... your body isnt ready yet..

&& for everybody else up here calling her a slut and everything else, yall know nothing about this girl, what she has been through, or anything. stop judging people til yall have walked in their shoes. take a look at society, this aint 1950, this is 2007, almost every girl around my age was the same age as me, and the younger girls nowadays are even starting younger than 13.
&& i know tha hell you aint talkin..

"bigtitsjessica" wtf?! you puttin yourself out there like a slut, and you wanna judge this girl?!?
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