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Ex husband is pathetic

My ex husband, my sons father for some reason always tries to make me feel depressed. He still goes to my parents house to collect my son to take him out, however if im there and he is there, he has a conversation with my mother and always for some reason talks about how he wants to get his new wife pregnant, he keeps on about the fact that he is trying for children with her. I cant have any more children, I have problems with my womb and he knows this however he makes a point of trying to rub my nose in it. I am now happily married to a wonderful guy and dont live in the area any more only visit a couple of times a year, but you can guarantee he will make a point of visiting to try to upset me or saying things. I actually laugh this off because whatver he does or says he cant get to me anymore, and I wonder why this man persists to be a jerk, has anyone else had a similar experience with their ex?
Do you think it's normal?
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sisophous (3738)
2007-01-10 11:36:09
Sounds like you are better off away from him and I'm getting irritated just reading what he does. I wouldn't describe him as pathetic, rather just a jerk. Don't get angry but realize you picked/chose him over other guys, to marry, create kids, and so are partly to blame. Girls as well as guys have to be more selective and not settle for creeps, abusers, selfish people and not ignore the warning signs. People don't just change from good to bad, I believe they may hide some of it but it is noticeable over time. The purpose of dating is not to just have fun but to select someone who is compatible in all areas, not for someone who is good in bed or scores well in the intimacy department. You say you are happily married, that's good, but I'm sure your kids whose parents are split up are not so well off with their situation.
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smithee (4389)
2007-01-10 12:56:55
Hello
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Fantainfinite (4355)
2007-01-10 13:01:40
Sometimes guys just like to be jerks. To irritate and annoy and hold a grudge. Kinda like butting your head aginst the side of someone just to be annoying. It is likely you are bothered by this a teeny bit what woman wouldn't. But before I get too gay I would say fight back and next time he talks about it say out loud how huge your new man's cock is and how it fills you so completely and the mountain of cum he delivers and how you never need protection now. That should shut him up. And remember if it ain't fanta its tango!
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roger49 (3711)
2007-01-10 13:26:34
Sounds like your ex is an asshole. If possible get the visits to stop. Or try telling him that the comments have to stop, or better yet, get your husband to do it for you (hopefully your husband is large).
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Freedomofspeech (3655)
2007-01-10 14:03:55
It is a pity that we must deal with ex-spouses for the good of the children of that marriage. Whenever my ex would open his mouth, I would imagine him as a quacking duck. Eventually, all I could hear when the man spoke was quacking. It was amusing as well as stress relieving.
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jeppy123 (5198)
2007-01-10 21:59:46
im a man and a women is a queen tell that basterd to stop bothering you its people like him that give good guys like me a bad name next time he talk to you wind your foot up and kick him right in the ()()===>
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Knock_It_off (6904)
2007-03-25 01:16:01
It's normal to have assholes around.
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slackjawedyokel (6678)
2007-04-04 20:03:40
so why are your parents relaying his shit to you anyway? But a stop to that right away.
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Crazydiamond (3320)
2007-04-15 12:57:42
Why not pretend to lure him back, get him a bit drunk then chop off his balls? That'd sort it out.
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BillyJeanisnotmygirl (11539)
2007-11-04 22:33:15
Mam this site is overrun by 10 year Retards so dont look for advice. As 4 ur question........ charge him harassment or move away
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