Your 1st time will always be painful, i say you should make sure your really ready, and with a guy who is very special to you, and make sure its his 1st times aswell, and tell him to go gentle. Your a bit young but people are having sex at younger ages, if you really think your ready and can find the right guy, then go for it. I'm 19 and still waiting for someone special. I'll do other stuff but not sex, thats for the special one, lol.

You will like it more if you wait

I have no idea whether it will hurt, that depends upon your body, whether your body lubricates and/or if you use lubricant and even if you use or do not use condoms may affect you. What I can predict is the 1st time having sexual intercourse will not be that rewarding or pleasurable. Few people recall their first time as particularly pleasing, and that applies to both the guys and girls. Best to wait and not have sex at age 14 particularly when you are apprehensive and unprepared for the psychological ramifications of doing so. Sorry, just my opinion.

I am a guy.
I waited until I was 21 to have sex. In many ways I am glad that I did. Sex is fun but can be really stressful (pregnancy, relationships, STDs, random emotions).

From what I hear it can hurt the first time. How much it will hurt depends on a number of things. How much if any of your hymen tears depends on your anatomy, his size, and speed.

I would suggest first having sex with someone you love that will take as long as you need and support your needs.

The first time I had sex, we were both virgins.

It was the most disorganised fumble you can imagine.

I struggled to get it in her and when I did, I only lasted three pumps before pulling out and spunking over her skirt.

She told me it hurt and I had blood on my knob.

That's what you've got to look forward to.

Sex will hurt but just for the first part whilst your body gets use to something being inserted into you. Let your partner know your a virgin and you'd like to take it slow. As for the blood mentioned by brothershamass, not all girls bleed on their first time. The bleeding is cause by the breaking of the hymen. Some women break it before they have sex through various sports activities or from using tampons. On my first time I didn't bleed so I must have broken mine another way.

Either way please wait untill you are at least a legal age. You will be glad you've waited a few years for a more mature partner.

You're 14. Keep it in your pants.

If you want to experience something, then maturbate, don't just go out and have sex.

Angel

foreplay will help. It will get u a lot more wet and not hurt as much

My first time wasn't painful. To help it from being painful, wait until you're older. Your vagina will loosen a bit and keep it from hurting. I waited until I was 18 (well, almost... I was two months away from my birthday) he went slow and gentle, and we had a lot of foreplay to get me wet. If you do it right, it's fine.

You're to young to have sex. Find something to occupy yourself with until you find someone worth all that pain!

i sometimes like to lick my vagina

so do i i do it all the time!!! i just cant stop and it tastes so good!! kinda like ur mom!!

my 1st time didnt hurt n i woz 12 wen i first had sex n i thort it felt quite gud but there woz alot ov foreplay at the beginnin he must ov been fingerin me for atleast 15 minutes lol :P im 15 now like but az much az i can rememba it didnt hurt lol i luvd it so have fun buh rememba always use a condom lol :D (Y)

Its not suppost to hurt, WHEN YOUR OLD ENOUGH ANYWAYS! Where is your parents. I hate slutty girls, don`t be thinkin about it until your 17

tru dat a dhese 10-14 yr ods havin sex leave it till ur 16 at least...

You should do it hoe.

The peddophile has spoken.XD jokes!

SLUT!!!

fuck the pain away

im a guy and my first time i was 14 my girl im still with her she was 13 im 20 now but she said it was like a pinch and then i numbed her so she said it hert for a sec frobly best not to try at your age anyway i had a bit of a scare myself

My boyfriend would stick it in me a lil bit everytime he came over. then i told him i was ready to go all the way and it didnt hurt.

No matter if u do it or wait it will stiill hurt.