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a question about age of consent...i need help

ok, my boyfriend is 20, and im 15. He lives in a state where the age of consent is 14. But where i live its 16. If i have sex with him in his state...will he still go to jail??? Or, do i like, have to move in with a grandma or somebody in his state??? How does that work???
Do you think it's normal?
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Comments (21)
Yes, he will still go to jail. Maybe if you move in with someone in his state it would work out better. He's twenty and you're 15? what are you doing with a guy that old anyway? Find someone your own age, you'll be happier.
@: roger49
but i am happy with him. we've been together for about 4 months now, and this shit just crossed our minds! AHHH!! i hate age of consent :-( wanna see us??? myspace.com/mamichula704 we're so cute together!! YAY!!
I still think he's a pedophile, but nobody's making you take my advice. I'm just saying that in my experience, when an older guy is involved with a younger girl, it ends poorly and she compromises her values.
@: roger49
ok well...
thanks for ur help.
ill think about ur advice. :-]
Get someone your own age. 20 year olds who hang around with 15 year olds are just creepy.
I personally thinnk it stops just short of pedophilia but the law might say otherwise. If you have to wait a year before being able to be open about it, then I suggest you wait or be careful.
I think if you have sex in his state its the states law and youll be OK theres nothing wrong with a 20yo having sex with a 15yo
By the way what state is this Im moving
Uhh, well if HE takes you across state, not only will he get arrested for statutory rape but also contributing to the delinquency of a minor. (I know I've been through a similar relationship, only the legal age of consent was 18, she was 16 and I was 17 but turned 18 2 weeks later). I moved to Nevada where the legal age of consent is 16, it doesn't matter. The only way is if your parents drive you over there. And though the legal age of consent may be 14 or whatever, you still have to have you parent's permission, so if they found out about it and didn't approve of it, they could still have him arrested for statutory and this is until you are 18 years old I'm afraid.

If you want to know why you need your parent's permission, it's because you are more than 3 years apart in age from eachother, trust me, look up the laws, I've already been there and done that. He is too old for you anyway, and everyone is right about the fact that a guy that old is only in it for the sex and could easily over power you, considering ya'll live in different states too, he could possibly kidnap you or worse.

You've only been with him for 4 months now, and you are a very young, immature age. Believe me, 4 months is NOT a long relationship, a year isn't even long. So don't go thinking you know this guy because of your 4 month relationship together. Some murderers or pedaphiles don't show their true colors until years later at the opportune moment.

and YES he IS a pedaphile, my mom works with FBI catching online pedaphiles and believe me, he will get over 5 years in prison, with a Felony on his record and will have to register as a sex offender for the rest of his life, so wherever he moves, the entire neighborhood will be warned of his presence.
forgot to mention, I'm 20 years old, married, my wife is 21 and have a 3 week old daughter. You're 15 and he's 20, can you see that there's something not right there?
Have to agree with pooponyou...you surely don't want to cross state lines that is a Federal offemnse and he will do time for Statuatory and taking a minor across state lines for immoral purposes! Wait a couple years Gurl if he loves you that much he will wait for you! If he doesn't then I have to agree with everyone else out here that he is just a pedophile!!
You guys will probably grow apart because you haven't experienced much. I dated older men and as I grew older I found that they JUST WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU. Don't do it unless you feel it's meaningful.
he would go to jail unless u were 17 or 18, no matter what age he is or r consent age is!!!
can u answer my new question that i just posted please. ur very helpful.
You are not normal. And the cursor on your page is just annoying.
Age is nothing but a number..your boyfriend is lucky and these people are just jealous....your myspace profile says you're 16 now so problem solved. Happy screwing!
dont you dare have sex with him its just gonna be hit it and quit it
Just have sex with him. Who the hell's gonna call the police?
I am I am jealous...lol
I can't believe what I am reading....

That is just wrong. Maybe 18 or something but you don't even look old for your age. You're boyfriend's a sicko.
PLEASE do not tell me you met this boyfriend online because if you did just STOP TALKING TO HIM NOW! He might be a creepy 50 year old predator.