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Torn apart inside

About four months ago I started to have feelings for this girl I work with unlike any feelings I have ever had for a girl before. I I have had crushes before but this is ridiculous. I think I have fallen in love with her. I would die for her. About three months ago I was gonna ask her out but found out she had a boyfriend and was absolutely crushed. Then a month ago she broke up with her boyfriend and I started talking to her and stuff and asked her out. She seemed really interested and happily accepted and asked me for a second date and we so we went out again. After that I called her to ask for a third date but she told me she didn't see our relationship going anywhere past being friends. Again, I was devastated and have been depressed ever since then, that was over three weeks ago. Then today I found out she has a new boyfriend; again, I am crushed. I get sick to my stomach just thinking about her with some other guy. I have to work with her too, that's the thing. Since she told me she just wanted to be friends working with her has been tough. I won't work with her for several days and convice myself I'm over her, then when I see her at work, all the feelings come rushing back. For three months now, I have constantly thought about her, never in that time have seven or eight minutes gone by without me thinking about her and how much I want to be with her. She is in a relationship now and all I really want is to stop thinking about her(or of course be with her but that doesn't seem possible now) but I can't. I mean, I used to be able to go to the mall and check out hot looking girls but anymore she seems to be the only girl I am attracted to; she is the definition of beauty to me. Does anybody have any advice on what I should do, other than go out and get laid. My friends have told me that but I just don't want to do that.
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roger49 (3711)
2007-01-10 21:16:29
I know it's hard, but you need to accept that she doesn't want to be with you. Then you need get out and chase some women. Maybe you'll find one you like more.
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Carlos (5224)
2007-01-11 00:40:49
if she just wants to be friends there isn't much you can do-- i'm sure there's someone better out there
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Rory2424 (4424)
2007-01-11 01:26:26
this is the poster. I'm doing my best to move on. I'm not even sure exactly what it is I like about her but I do know one thing, she is very fickle--moreso than most teenage girls, she is 18 by the way. I am going to just be friends with her, be the best friend I can, and hope maybe someday her feelings for me might change.
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