I'm 21 and have NEVER been on a date
I'm 21 years old and have never been on a date, kissed a guy much less had a boyfriend or sex. I feel so left out when comparing myself to my friends who have been in relationships and some are even engaged. I know I'm not ugly because I have been told I'm beautiful many times. I get stares from guys but none approach me. What could be the problem??
You may want to consider an untraditional approach but pretty common. Many girls take the initiative and ask the guy to do something or go someplace with them, such as a concert, a show, or anyplace.
Here's an idea, pick up a couple of tickets to some event (sports event are fun) or concert and ask a guy if he'd like to join you. Have a backup plan (girlfriend) to go to if the guy can't make it or declines. There is no fuss or hassle, and it's something to look forward to. A girl covering for a single date is no big deal either as the guys usually pick up the tab the other times. You can also get their phone numbers on your own, give them a ring. I've had many girls call me at home, some I didn't even know. Have fun with it too. good luck
It brings people together
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You may only be able to smile and get a smile back before you blush and turn away, but keep practicing, and increase the number of men you flirt with day by day or week by week, start with 1, then 2, 3, 4, ad infinitum.
I had a similar problem. I just stumbled into my first sexual experience. And that is not something that I would advise. Be careful what you wish for.
Once you do get close to someone, DO NOT GET TOO CLOSE TOO QUICKLY. You still have over a decade to have sex & propagate. I repeat: Do Not Rush It.
I've found that it does somewhat have to do with 'vibes' or whatever you want to call it. Although I've never been on a date, I've noticed (through observing friends and others) that usually it's the girls initiating the flirting or perpetuating it. Most guys will start a conversation but I think girls have to be aggressive or show obvious interest in the guy. If not, he won't have any confidence to ask you out. I guess men need a confidence boost or have some garuntee that you're not going to shoot them down if they do ask you out.
The women around me don't interest me much, and the ones that do are the age that would go for guys much older than me.
Don't try to force something to happen... "if it's meant to happen" and all that stuff.
..problem solved.
if i was like 25 and u were hot id be like lets get married if u were a cool ass chick
nothing turns a guy on more than a girl whos like innocent
try nd be reli reli open
be flirtasicous