26 and a virgin

being scared about sex or your first time is normal. yes u do need to loosen up abit. take it slow. u be in control of how you want things.

gl

Are you going to be scared all your life?
Just take that cock and stick it up there.
You'll love it.

26 years old u say that is quite alarming. Your bio clock is counting down fast and ur body is getting flabbier and tits more droop with every word typed. Luckily I am a young and available male who is willing to show you the ropes, my rope in particular (chortle) so come suck me beautiful.

I don't think you have a fear of sex per say rather you have a fear of trusting people and intimacy. I think it best if you just use foreplay for awhile and eventually it will lead to sex. You should seek help otherwise you will just go on being self destructive and tormenting yourself. Advice alone will likely have little effect, you are best to get some counseling.

Taking a sedative may also help such as a couple Valerian (over the counter supplement in the vitamin section of a pharmacy) or even a small glass of wine may relax you. At your age you should be enjoying sex, so best stop cheating yourself and seek help. good luck

yeah you're not afraid of s*x.. I think you just don't trust that person enough for you to have s*x with him. If you do find that person is the one for you then you will give it to him. Try to relax and think how much you want to be with him and how much you want to do it with him. Don't be scared.

you'll relax when i get in there. Wait a few hours, i'll be over soon

How is he touching you when you get freaked out? If he is touching you over your pants or blouse, then that will require real work to overcome; e.g., it might seem that you have some religious hang ups that you need to address. That may require counseling.

Otherwise, first you need to find the right man (with everything you like: looks, humor, intellect, etc.). Find out if he is sensitive (ask him if he ever cried while watching %u201COld Yeller%u201D). If he is he should be more understanding, then be with him at least several months before you get intimate (go beyond kissing).

You and he need to relax. So he will not move faster than you want.

You may want to tell him that you want to take things slowly, so that he does not get discouraged. But he may ask if you are a virgin. Most men are willing to help/coach virgins much more slowly than with other women.

Seriously, unlock the chastity belt and enjoy the world.

become lesbian?

You can stay a virgin forever,
if you want.

PENIS! JUST EAT LOTS AND LOTS OF PENIS! IT FEELS GOOD TO SUCK A PENIS FOR BREAKFAST!