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I Chased a Girl i thought i Loved for 4 years
I met this girl when i was 14, and i thought i was in Love with her, but when i was 18, i finally got with her and i felt nothing. After all the chasing, it meant nothing. But i still want her.
Hi there, This is very common and happens all the time, I think its just the idea that people build up in their minds about someone, an 'Ideal' as what it is known by. But the reality is somewhat different to the fantasy. It can also work the other way around. For instance you can find yourself not liking someone much, maybe having a strong dislike for them but if you actually got with that person or got to go out with them as a girlfriend you might find that you are really attracted to them, opposites attract. hope this helps.
fuck...just ask her out im 14 and i asked a girl out...takes balls to do it, it isn't easy for young ppl...only takes about 2 weeks to find out more about her
i asked her out when i was 14 dumbass, and she's not a little girl like the one's your probably going with. Go back to school and i can tell about my long hard week of work, fucking child.
It cud mean u dont wanna feel like u lost 4 years off u life. Or it could just be you don't know what you've got until it's gone! Getting what you want makes you not want it so much anymore..The chase is exciting but the goods aren't! Find someone else!
if you like her go for it