i am a teen girl who did something i really regret.. i was goin through a rough time and i did some really bad horrible things i would never think i'd do, i dont know why..i cybered twice in a public chatroom, showing/feeling myself publicly, and i guess it felt good to get all the compliments and stuff but after i felt so guilty and it keeps haunting me.. its really hard to move on knowing i did something so horribly sick as i know most girls my age would never do it.. are there any teenage girls who have cybered(like seriously, showing/doing sick stuff on webcam) or am i the only one.. and should i feel guilty? how can i get over the horrible feeling of knowing what ihave done??
I did something similiar, but I told myself that I have "been there done that" and it has made me a stronger and more eperienced person.
THATS GOOD ADVICE, THEN U WON'T FEEL SO GUILTY DOING AND SHOWING STUFF TO UR BF WOULD BE MUCH BETTER!!!
I would say don't dwell on what you did. It is over and you are not any worse off for it, except mentally. You enjoyed it at the time, and you probably made a lot of guys happy, so don't sweat things.
I won't say forget about it, but concentrate on the good feelings you had at the time, the pleasure you brought guys (and yourself) at the time and then chalk it up to experience.
It has taken me a long time to get over my own sexual guilt (Repressed lesbian desires and a really strong love of watersports) and I've learned that my desires make me me. I have enjoyed most of what I've done sexually, though a few times I had guilt after - I just dwell on the pleasure and don't think about the rest as it is over and done with.
Hope this helps.
Tobra