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cybering.. so wrong??

i am a teen girl who did something i really regret.. i was goin through a rough time and i did some really bad horrible things i would never think i'd do, i dont know why..i cybered twice in a public chatroom, showing/feeling myself publicly, and i guess it felt good to get all the compliments and stuff but after i felt so guilty and it keeps haunting me.. its really hard to move on knowing i did something so horribly sick as i know most girls my age would never do it.. are there any teenage girls who have cybered(like seriously, showing/doing sick stuff on webcam) or am i the only one.. and should i feel guilty? how can i get over the horrible feeling of knowing what ihave done??
Do you think it's normal?
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Comments (17)
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NO you are not the only one. Just put it past you, we are all learning and growing and becoming stronger. That you have enough self-respect to not do it now is proof that you have learned from the experience.
I did something similiar, but I told myself that I have "been there done that" and it has made me a stronger and more eperienced person.
Hi There, you are not the only one that has done this, millions of others, both men and women have done this. You were going through a tuff time and were feeling a little mixed up at the time but you have sorted it out now and good on you, you have learnt a great lesson from this, so dont feel bad about your self anymore, you are a good person no worse than many other people, so stop feeling guilty and try to start feeling positive about yourself, think of all the good qualities you have as a person and all the good things you have done, I bet they out way any bad, good luck, hope this helps.
I really don't see much wrong with doing this. But if its finished then good for you. Get a boyfriend you can be a naught little bitch with.
thanks 4 the advice its good 2 no im not the only one.. what happens tho wen someone u no recognizes u on cyber.. wt do u do??
i doubt anyone will admit to watching you. i think most people would be too embarrassed. if anyone DOES ask you about it, rise above it, ask them if they liked what they saw.
I can safely tell you for a fact that you are NOT the first girl I've seen on the internet. Not by a long shot.
thnx tht makes me feel better..but u mean uve seen girls undress and do other sh*t w/ themselves on cam, or uve just seen girls in general not doin nething 2 horrible??
I've never cybered, becuase i feel it is a disgusting thing. But then again, many guys who have cybered have never given head to another guy, and considers that disgusting. Just put it behind you, its normal, no one gives a shit
hey im a guy i think its fairly normal nd u should try it agian wats ur msn? lol
Both, various, (never actually subscribed to porn sites though, but thought about it)
haha your a whore you slut
You are fine. As long as you are in control and know when to stop. If you are doing it because it makes you feel sexy and horny - why not do it. Just be careful.
Oh, and, never give out any real information about yourself i.e. anything anyone can use to actually find you (real name, address, etc)
"Get a boyfriend you can be a naught little b**ch with"

THATS GOOD ADVICE, THEN U WON'T FEEL SO GUILTY DOING AND SHOWING STUFF TO UR BF WOULD BE MUCH BETTER!!!
FREEDYTHETEDDY, SHE IS NOT A WHORE OR A SLUT SO SHUT UP, IF U LIKE IT DON'T STOP, BUT BE VERY VERY CAREFUL AND DON'T DO IT WITH GUYS WAY OLDER THAN U TRY AND CYBER WITH CAM WITH GUYS UR OWN AGE OR A LITTLE OLDER.
I've cyber'd with guys on line (a lot) and did the webcam masturbation thing for an ex BF of mine (Once)

I would say don't dwell on what you did. It is over and you are not any worse off for it, except mentally. You enjoyed it at the time, and you probably made a lot of guys happy, so don't sweat things.

I won't say forget about it, but concentrate on the good feelings you had at the time, the pleasure you brought guys (and yourself) at the time and then chalk it up to experience.

It has taken me a long time to get over my own sexual guilt (Repressed lesbian desires and a really strong love of watersports) and I've learned that my desires make me me. I have enjoyed most of what I've done sexually, though a few times I had guilt after - I just dwell on the pleasure and don't think about the rest as it is over and done with.

Hope this helps.

Tobra