He's just using you. Dump him and move on to someone who can give you the attention you deserve. He doesn't love you, or he'd be with you instead of his other girlfriend.

The person above is right. Tell him. "Leave your girlfriend or I'm leaving you. What do you choose?"
I know you may get hurt in the end, but you can't continue on like this.

I want you to think VERY hard about this...how do you know he won't cheat on you if he is cheating on his girlfriend? A friend of mine started a relationship with a married man, and they even moved in together because he was not happy in his marriage. Then, he cheated on her(my friend) with another girl, and of course he was still sleeping with his wife. My point is that there are men who get bored easily and having an affair is new, fun, and exciting...but it only lasts for a while. He will most likely find a new toy to play with and you will be retired. If he truly loved you or his gf he would treat you with respect and honesty. Good luck, and I hope you love and respect yourself enough to realize he's no good for you.

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You are being used. Don't waste any more time with him.

I don't think i am being used, it has been over a year..if i was being used i think he would keep asking me for sex. But he doesn't he likes to take things slowly.

The question is, how old are you and how old is her? Older men love younger women due to the fact that they are easy to trick. The fact that he hasn't asked for sex could mean one of a couple things however.

1. Maybe you are reading to much into the relationship? Maybe he doesn't want to have sex and just want to stay friends? Maybe he does like you, but cannot and/or willnot mess up his relationship with his current girlfriend because of it, and has to much pride and morals as a man to cheat on her (Thats rare for a guy BTW)


2. He doesn't find you attrative and doesn't really want to have sex with you, but is just saying that he does to adviod hurting your fellings.

3. You're psycho and you're stalking him. Sorry, I've been a victim of a crazy lady for a while now. I mean hell, you said it yourself that you have many complications. So whos to know whats going on here?


More information is needed reguardless. I would say you're normal for the time being even though my comment might sound a little hateful.

I can't believe women do this. Do you really think screwing up HER life is worth it? And what about the future, as if he will stand by you and not do the same behind your back when you finally have him!

He will never, ever be that guy you have 'all to yourself.' He will always be that guy that many, many girl's will, however.

i'm too greedy, just want one guy all to myself, and you know there is too much shit out there to worry about being in this situation. this man is selfish, he wants it all, and he is getting it, and if the other girl is awful why is he still with her? move on, get tested, and find a guy who will treat you good

Is there a such thing as respect anymore in this f()cked up world? In this situation I think many people that have commented are correct. You have to realize if he loved you he would not still be with his girlfriend. If he loved you, you would be the only woman he would want to spend all of his free time with. You also have to realize that if he is not man enough to tell the woman he is with, and has been with for some time now that he has new interests, you will end up in the same boat. The way you get em is the way you lose em(ever heard that? It's true!!!) Take some time to reevaluate your self worth.

he just wants a young pussy with no wrinkles....from my poin of view he just usin u