Are You Normal?
Curious how others might perceive your situation? Submit your story and find out.
1. Read 2. Vote 3. Repeat
What do you think?
Is it cause i'm ugly or sumtin!
i am a 16 year old guy and have never had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl for that matter, and from what i know none of the girls i know like me. i'm a really nice guy, have a great personality, etc... i'm not fat or deformed or anyhthing like that i dont wear glasses, i'm an average height, i'm fairly well built ( straight shoulder's, muscular arms and legs, Etc.. but not over the top at all). and i look about 19 and can grow a beard!well the thing i want to know is, well 3 things, do girls nowdays judge only by looks? would i be considered ugly?
and what is do girls look for in a guy?
Does this story fit one of these flags? If so, click it!
[Best Of] [Funny] [Interesting] [Weird] [Repetitive] [Lame] [Vulgar] [F*cked Up] [Fake] [Off Topic] [Innapropriate] [Adult]
Check out these other stories:
someone hacked applemilk1988 youtube acc...
Female Panties
SweetAngel's Brother Loves Her Pussy ...
masterbate
Untold Secrets
I obviously don't know you, these are just some suggestions to consider and may be of help. Age 16 is still very young and many your age have never had romance. I also found once I got out of high school, entered college, that things became much easier to meet girls. High school is not the most conducive for romance, so don't let it bother you, get out and have fun.
"shut up, i'm asking for womens opinions, not mens!!!!" - Makes you seem a bit of a cunt as the other guys were only trying to help.
And you don't sound like you are funny at all: "how bout no you crazy dutch b*s***d!" - People who take lines from films to try and look funny usually have a very low form of wit and personal humour.
secondly i hav a great personality!
(He told me to kill myself to...and some other stuff)
It has to be some thing you are putting out that gives a neg. responce. Look at yourself, and ask others around you what they think! Then find the pretiest gurl at your school and ask her out! UNLESS... you are100% sure she has a BF> But, find some one that really looks good...alot of those gurls are actually lonely!
oh and secondly there is no girls at my skwl(grr!) but i do know a bunch of girls from a nearby all-girls skwl!
Women liek men who look dangerous. Id choose teh guy with the slight dangerous look anyday. he needs to have some form of a sense of humor and he needs to learn to smile
and god, give strong eyecontact, tell the chicks that you want that your interested. We arent telepathic
My brother was fresh out of college and was starting in a Sales job at a fast growing computer company and said that there was jealousy by the other salespeople there because many of them didn't have a college degree and that he was on the "fast track". Then he started telling us that he wasn't feeling very good and that he thought that one of these scheming co-workers had stuck him with a needle with some unknown drug so as to take him out of competition for the top jobs in the company. He also said he felt strange, and didn't have much energy and couldn't concentrate.
Obviously this whole story seemed very unbelievable and we sensed something was wrong but had no clue as to what it could be. We recommended that my brother quit his job and look for something else - as we began to wonder if he had a "mental breakdown" and would get better once out of the stressful job situation. A month or two after he quit his job he suddenly began calling me from payphones because he thought that people were bugging his phone and that famous business people in the country were trying to get his new business ideas. This was so "far out" as to be entirely unbelieveable and we suddenly realized that something was very clearly and seriously wrong - what exactly that was took us another 5 years to find out definitively, which is the saddest part. We went through a number psychiatrists and psychologists who thought he was fine or only a little paranoid (he always seemed to pull together enough to present a reasonable front to the psychiatrists but we knew the old John, and something was still definitely wrong - but you keep hoping that they are right and that he just needed a few months to get back on his feet).
My recommendation to people who are either wondering if they have schizophrenia - or
wondering if a friend or loved one has schizophrenia - is to first contact talk with people in the schizophrenia.com discussion areas, or contact the Local NAMI (in the USA), or Schizophrenia Society (in Canada), and visit one of their meetings to talk with other parents or family members and get a recommended psychiatrist from them who is experienced with schizophrenia. I think one of our key problems was that we didn't do this in the early days of my brother's illness (though misdiagnosis sounds very common in schizophrenia cases) - and because of this we may have missed the opportunity to get treatment. This lack of treatment during the early years of the illness, research now suggests, could have been a key factor in his ultimately poor recovery and suicide.
After a few meetings with psychiatrists - and no improvement in my brother's condition - he became disillusioned with the medical profession and would no longer see doctors. It took us almost 6 years until he then degenerated to the state where he could he had become so delusional that he had to be hospitalized. If we had gotten him medication much earlier I think he would still be alive today.
I've never kissed a guy (unlike all my friends), I'm not overweight, I'm not ugly (people have told me I'm very pretty, but I think they're joking) I think I have an ok personality. I haven't got a boyfriend because I don't want one, plus I'm a geek. And extremely odd.
In short, you're normal.
Girls don't like homophobes
Curiously, they DO seem to like bisexual guys like me who can be masculine AND feminine cuz for some reason that turns them on
Also, learn to eat pussy and your luck will change, you'd be amazed how much ass you get when you have a reputation for giving good head
some of your posts seem rather homophobic
maybe you're not, but yeah I don't know why you haven't gotten a gf . . .
just be outgoing and, as soon as they seem interested, totally ignore them and be aloof and they'll get so worked up about you teasing them they HAVE to talk to you/call you/IM you etc.
Show a little sensitivity too, then be all mysterious like you have a dark past to hide
they go for that
also, stealthily spread around that you can eat pussy like a champ
you'll get like 30 e-mails from random girls who have boyfriends who are terrible at it or are single and never had it done and are DYING to get it done (yes, I'm serious)
good luck