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problems with tampons and cant have sex!

im 16, i cannot fit tampons ive tried for nearly four years and it still wont get up there. ive tried the smallest tampons ever but it still wont work. okay i am small very small about the height of a 12 year old but i still dont understand, all my friends can fit them but i cant. all my friends arnt virgins but i am. i serisouly cant have sex ive tried but embarassing as it is it didnt fit up there! is this normal? pleease comment.
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No matter how small you you can have sex it just takes practice and plenty of foreplay remember one size fits all
For tampons try Tampax Pearl, they go in smoother and much easier. It could be that you are too dry for easy entry. Vaginas stretch, they have to, so even if you have to stretch them out slowly, you should be able to have sex fine with practice. Find a small dildo, they make all sizes.


Plus you are only sixteen... why the rush?
try lubricating the tampon applicator with some personal lubricant(ky jelly...it's NOT jsut for anal sex)
if you're still virgin why you want to use tempons? It can ruin your virginity.
Yes, it is normal, but not pervasive. Some adult women find it too painful to have sex too. There are four layers of tissue that need to be broken in most females otherwise an object entering them causes much pain. The tissue usually gets broken at an early age without ever having sex but sometimes remains in adults. So, do not worry at age 16, be patient and avoid comparing yourself to others.

If others do not accept who you for your differences, they are not ones to be around in the first place.
k first of all u need to actually be on ur period... neva try putting in a tampon wen ur not on... coz it fuckin hurts tryin to pull it out wen its dry. u also jus need to relax... lift up on leg and jus like rest it on the bath tub or sumthing then just slowly put it in... it dnt hurt at all.
annnnnd make sure ur going the right direction. i know that sounds dumb. but its a little tricky at first.
yeaaah you are normal things just need time and practise =)
"neva try putting in a tampon wen ur not on... coz it f**kin hurts tryin to pull it out wen its dry."

Damn it, that sound painful.I'm glad I never tried tampons. Sanitry towels are another alterinitive, that's what I use.

As for sex, don't be scared to try again because of your problem. Infact, it might help open things up a little the more you try. If sex is painful try using lube for smoother entry.
it wasnt me who posted this, i was giving advice
hey who cares that is wat makes u who u are
i hope i never fall for a girl i can't have sex with cos of this...
trust me it will fit....if a fucking person can come out of your vagina....i think a little tampon can
Hon, no matter how small you are you can still fit both a tampon and a penis in your vagina. You just need to be stretched out. If you have never even had a guy finger you or anything you are probably very tight. In order to have sex, you need to be relaxed, loose and wet. Also, i would not recommend using tampons if you cannot get a penis to go in. relax.
Height isn't an issue, You can still fit both a penis and a tampon into your vagina! Seek advice from your GP!
it's harder if you're trying to put a tampon in while you're tense. you need to just relax.
I've also had problems with tampons.
It all depends on the application and the size.
Go for name brands and ones that come with instructions and really follow them.
Also, if you really want to have sex, make sure you are ready, I've said this a million times on here but you only have one first, choose wisely.
But, it you really want to just have a lot of foreplay first and everything should be fine.
try putting some vasolene on the tip, it should go in with out u even noing it
Stick it on my penis then I'll help you put it in.
Okay this might sound a bit weird but It will work trust me I had the same problem you have I was a senior in high school and only weighed about 87 pounds. This is what my doctor told me. Buy tampax pearl either light or regular and scented. Read the instructions carefully and it might take a few minutes so make sure you have a few. take some lotion or lubricant and place on your hand. get a mirror so you can see clearly your vagina standing put one foot on the toilet or elevated higher than the other. Pull your vagina lips apart and start by placing one finger in and moving it around. Get it good and lubricated inside as well as out then try with two fingers and so on until you can easily push the lubricated tampon in. Then you're done check your tampon about every 4 to 6 hours for the first few times then you'll know after that!!! Hope this helps and GOOD LUCK!!!
WTF
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