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Are We Really Friends?

hello; for the past while, i have been undergoing this odd uneasiness concerning my relationship with my friends (well, one friend in particular). you see, i have been friends with this guy for a couple of years now and we get along really well, but for all that, i often find myself doubting just how close a friendship it is. i suppose the main reason why this is such a pressing concern for me is that, more recently, i have developed a certain attraction towards him. anyway, more often than not, we only get together maybe once every two weeks. and so, i don’t know, is it normal for so-called friends to meet on so seldom an occasion? if there was a real closeness there, a real friendship, we’d probably see more of each other, no?
Do you think it's normal?
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darsky (5269)
2007-01-13 23:53:20
take it as it is. you sound like friends to me coz if you two werent then u wouldnt be seeing each other at all! and if you want to see him more then tell him that you would like to see him more often.
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smithee (4389)
2007-01-14 21:11:44
yeah you are friends because you do hang out and be with each other. Don't worry about it!
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tankscutie (6881)
2007-03-24 13:37:05
First of all you need to tell him how you really feel about him because as to what you have already said I'd say he already knows and is just a little maybe uneasy or doesn't know how to perceive it. So just try talking to him about the amount of time you hang out or what not. If he doesn't have any interest in you other than a friend he might later on just remember friends usually make the best and longest lasting relationships mostly because as friends you share the same interests and know alot about each other already other =wise how would you be friends in the first place!!!GOOD LUCK with him!!!
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EmoFobSk8Dex (10984)
2007-10-06 10:35:18
u should know if he likes u in a special way, the way he flirts with u and be wif u when u need him. if he aint doing much action, maybe he just want u as a really close friend,dont ruin the friendship if its that. dont just release it out one day, hint him, make eye contacts. do a lil "opps" thing, to see how he reacts
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