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Spanking and oppression

My husband and I have been married for 15yrs and recently we have started to play out some fantasies to keep our sex life alive.
It is news to me but I realise now that I love to be spanked and completely demeaned by him. When we are alone in the house,he makes me get naked and he spanks me with a wooden spoon. Then I have to stand in the corner naked while he watches t.v.If he clicks his fingers I have to bow to him and get him whatever he needs,sometimes he sits eating at the kitcjen table and I have to beg from him like a dog and I get spanked for putting my head on the table. It drives me crazy just thinking about it.
Do you think it's normal?
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Comments (14)
smithee (4389)
2007-01-15 12:04:48
do you like to do this and you are ok with that? If you are then its probably just a fetish. I would get out of the relationship with him if you don't like it and you feel he's abusing you.
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Lilspanking (5311)
2007-01-15 12:08:13
@: smithee
No we are completely and utterly in love....I ask for him to do this it is my fantasy,I'm just wondering is it normal?It makes me wild with excitement even talking about it.We have only done it twice and afterwards the sex was amazing.
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smithee (4389)
2007-01-15 12:09:03
ok, then if you like it then it is fine! You are normal.
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crazyme (4954)
2007-01-15 12:56:50
If you like it then it's normal. It's what you ask for.
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x-princess-aimi-x (4763)
2007-01-15 13:51:06
well its up 2 u i spose... go 4 it
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cabinet70 (4440)
2007-01-15 18:42:25
It sounds like fun
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Fantainfinite (4355)
2007-01-15 20:10:20
I think women like to be treated badly and abused or something.
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callo (3023)
2007-01-15 20:38:03
i wish i could find a girl like that
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devbro (5318)
2007-01-18 12:21:42
domination??
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deamond (5379)
2007-01-22 03:53:29
Have you ever read any John norman books? look up "Gorean" "Gor" "Kajira" "The Gorean Saga" or "John norman".
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blanket (5305)
2007-01-28 03:43:43
can u be my mommy
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omgurdead (5597)
2007-01-30 12:55:13
your husband is a lucky man.
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mymunchkins (5639)
2007-02-02 02:40:05
I enjoy a good spanking. :)

My husband had a really bad day once and was very angry when he went to bed. I was surprisingly turned on by it. I begged him to take his aggression out on me sexually - Man, it was good . . .
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October (10003)
2007-09-05 10:49:11
Nothing wrong with wanting to be spanked, or demeaned (Degraded) so far as I can see.

I went through a short phase where I really wanted to be demeaned by a BF as much as possible. I see now I wanted it for reasons Other than sexual, though that end was fun too.

You might consider talking to him about it more. If you like certain aspects of sexual degradation you can explore these and more. The IMPORTANT thing, to me, would be if he is a LOVING partner and will treat you well and with respect OUTSIDE of the bedroom (Living room, toilet or closet, whatever) when you are Not getting sexy together.

Tobra
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