no, not only is it illegal it is fucking sick. it is ok to have fantasys but if you fulfill them your "lover" could be put into jail and sodomized every day, now you wouldn't like that would you?

Tell your mother what that he stoked your leg. Sounds like a pedo to me.

Stroked* even.

People act surprised by such behavior but this is widespread when a woman dates a guy while raising a teen daughter.

First, your mother should not be dating anyone until you reach age 18, her focus should be on raising you, not some guy, but of course this is not something you have any control over. If you have other relatives who you can live with, you may consider moving out of the home you are in and live elsewhere, apart from your mother. Frankly, your mother sounds irresponsible to have left you alone in the home with this guy while she went out with her girlfriends.

As far as attractions, you can like anyone you wish, nothing is wrong with attractions but there is something seriously wrong with an adult guy freind and a 15 year old girl being left home together. Speak to an adult relative you trust and tell them what you posted here. Sorry if my post bothers you, I'm just being sincere and leveling with you.

well it is illegal for him to do anything with you... and evn if u did do sumthing with him... how cud u betray ur mum in that way? dnt act on ur feelings it probz jus a silly crush it will pass

and also cud i jus say to sisophous that it is a load of bullshit that her mum shudnt be dating... she is allowed a social life. the world dont stop jus becoz u becum a mother

You should fuck him, and get pregnant, and have quadruplets, four little sweaty Argentine babies, and you can be an amazing family together for the next five years until he dies of old age. MMMMMMm.

He sounds like a sleazy spick to me. The fact that he is going out with your mother he should not be looking at you. If he was just an aquaitence it would be up to you if you fuck him but he is in the position of stepfather and is just being a sleazy spick

its normal to feel attracted to him, its the human way, rubbing ur leg, eh, ok, a little wierd, but were ou uncomfortable?, just try not to let it go farther thanthat

I say its ur life u do wat u want. If u want to be Lil Miss Slut, then f*ck his brains out, otherwise respect ur mom and let her know wats up.
Although if u do f*ck him and he rails ur brians out, let him give u anal as well, u could always use that against him later on to get anything u want.

Its ur call. Good luck.

First, your mother should not be dating anyone until you reach age 18

WTF? Is her Mom supposed to become a Nun? What bullshit.

You should inform your Mom about the leg rubbing.

I WAS RUBBING MY OWN LEG LAST NIGHT. THE3 FAT FOLDS HAD GOTTEN INFECTED AND HAD A RASH FROM WHEN I HID SOME HIGH FRUCTOSE SNACKS IN THEM. MY MOTHER DOESN'T HAVE A BOYFIREND BECAUSE THE LAST ONE GOT LOST IN HER FAT FOLDS.

You know, sweetheart, I'm thinking this latin lover guy might be only dating your mom to get to you. But maybe that's because it's been a movie premise before. I digress. The thing you should know about latino men is they usually will have sex with anything that moves. Even though it's unusual in this country, in their country its basically natural to stick anything that moves. You should probably tell your mom about it and keep your virginity.

And I thought my family was dysfunctional!

Not okay for him to come on to you.

Okay for you to be attracted. My mom was divorced for several years before she remarried, and it was wonderful to have a father in my life again. You just haven't had a male figure in your life, and since your mother has a heated relationship now, that's the direction your feelings about intimacy will go. Do you have a boyfriend? Might be time to start dating. Just be careful.

Im 15 and im attracted to my 44 year old stepmom.

its normal, but i wouldnt reccomend hitting on him, that would be bad.

The fantasy is fine. Just don't act on it. As for your mum dating, she has every right in the world to do so but, on her girls' night out, maybe you should go stay with a friend or an aunt just until your mum gets home.

This guy stroked your leg and that's got alot of sexual connotations to it.

Just seems strange to me that your mother would go out and leave him to "baby-sit" you.

Don't feel bad. There's nothing wrong with being attracted to your Mom's BF. However, don't let it go beyond that. In other words, don't have sexual relations with the man. Don't betray your mother. That could destroy the relationships in your household.

As far as him rubbing your legs. Well, my advice is to not over-react. Let it go, this time. The next time, move away, and tell him that you feel uncomfortable when he touches. You probably actually like it. But even so, it is not a good idea to let things get out of hand. You might lose your inhibitions, and the nest thing you know, you're sleeping with him. If you sleep with him, and someone finds out, he will most definitely go to jail. You don't want that. Everybody loses.

1) That's pretty much illegal
2) He's dating your MOTHER, that's kinda sick that he's trying to get it on with you too.
3) My advice: Tell your mom and get rid of this guy.

Yes it's normal that you are attracted to him. It's probably also "normal" that he's attracted to you BUT it's illegal to do anything about it. Also, do you REALLY wanna have your mom's seconds? That's so far past disgusting I can't even think of it. Find your own man.

@sisophous:

Normally you give good advice but this time I'm surprised at you. No single parent should date anyone until their kid is 18, because 100% of their focus should be on the kid? That sounds pretty extreme to me. Shoudl married parents never have an evening out together, never host parties, never do anything by or for themselves because their focus should be on raising their kids too? Adults need lives and adult company. I don't like to see parents put their dating and socializing first and foremost above everything, but jeez, the woman got divorced when the daughter was 4. She can't just live as a nun for the next decade and a half. You sound bitter.

And also I think that it's normal for her to have a crush on him, but NOT normal for him to be touching her in any way.

hes Argentinian, like me we're an irresistable nation of people, normal