Is he a c*nt or am I too sensitive?
I'm sorry, this is a long one but its well worth it.
I dumped my boyfriend for this boy, and I thought I made the right choice. He seemed perfect in a lot of ways and although I was well aware he had his flaws, they weren't big.
The one flaw that is probably going to cause me to dump him though, is the fact he's always talking about his ex (whom he was with years ago). He claims he dumped her but sometimes I wonder. It's just little things like when he sees the mug I'm using he says "Me and Crystal bought that mug" or the other night, and this is what caused me to flip, we were discussing cow-tipping and I said it was cruel, he said I'm a hypocrite because I eat them, I said I'm not because they're killed in a humane way, and he replied (and I quote) "If Crystal was here she'd say you're a hypocrite". I stormed off and ignored him all night.
Am I being too sensitive or is he being a c*nt that isn't over her?
PERSONALY I WOULD DUMP HIM
PS: He might want more from you if he keeps this up.
He's talking about his ex girlfriend whilst he's with you. So what? It doesn't necessarily mean that he wants to get back together with her.
I used to talk to my boyfriend about my ex a fair amount of the time and no way did I want to get back together with my ex. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for nearly 5 years now. We could be completely honest and open with one another and talk about anything.
Maybe certain things remind him about her?
Maybe he thinks that you're comfortable with the subject?
Maybe he feels comfortable talking to you about the past?
Maybe he does actually want to get back together with her?
There could be lots of different reasons and this is why you're being sensitive.
Have you tried to talk to him about it?
Have you told him that you don't like it?
Have you asked him why he keeps talking about your ex?
Oh, and not forgetting that you dumped your ex boyfriend for this guy so getting into this relationship is of your own doing.
That's his problem
But now yours for ditching your guy to be with him.
good luck
That's too funny.
He's probably tagging that on the side.