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I'm a 15 y/o boy. There is this girl I can't stop thinking about no matter what I am doing. I am going to sleep and her image pops up, I'll be watching a movie with some guy friends and I'll think about her. Most of the time its sexual thoughts as thats what teenage boys do, but I don't always want to think like that. I want to be one of those guys who holds the door open, goes to dinner and a movie and talk for hours non-stop without the thought of sex/making out come up at all. Sometimes i do want this but a lot of times I just want to be on of those goodie-goodie boys and if the time arises, let her tell me.

There aa couple problems in this story, I can't figure out if she likes me, I have a ton of urges to just come out and be like, "I like you in a way more than just friends, if oyu like me back then let me know, if you don't then don't feel bad we can still be friends", but that is one of those things that you want to do but your mind and body are just resisting you.

THe other problem is, will girls ever bring up the idea of sex if the guy never mentions it?

vote yes/no. just want some comments for this one. Thanks
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Comments (15)
Jesus-FaLLeN (4652)
2007-01-17 09:12:42
This is indeed normal


Solution

Shoot yourself in head to stop thinking about her
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crazyme (4954)
2007-01-17 13:55:37
You like her, you should ask her out. Tell her that you like her and ask if she wants to go to movie or something.
Some girls they do bring out s*x subject to talk about. That is the way to let the guy know that they want to have s*x with him. Guys always wait for girls to give them hint or watch the girls action. So it's a yes for your vote question
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deamond (5379)
2007-01-20 02:31:28
Normal.
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bouncexmysoul (3948)
2007-01-26 14:44:06
Don't fret I am going through the same problem as you are. See I like this kid and he's new in my school and eveyrthing annd seems very nice. Sometimes I just wanna go up to him and be like"___ I like you." just like that. But I can't picture us naked together. lol
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bouncexmysoul (3948)
2007-02-01 18:21:04
@: Jesus-FaLLeN
*yawn*
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smurph (2483)
2007-02-11 19:18:28
Dude totally normal and im the same way so just ask her out and see this saves you the trouble of all the crap your going through and yes some women will bring up sex usally if they want it and yes nice guys should heed that hint because she will leave you for your friend who will give her what she wants cause she just wants sex (sorry im ranting it just happened to me)
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ohelijah49 (6438)
2007-03-08 20:30:54
hahah ive gone through that im pr etty sure everybody has, if it feels right just ask her out flirt iwth her and see if she flirts back tell her how u feel! dont be a weirdo though gl! and girls dont really bring up sex that early in relationships but some do cuz there freaks! but yea go for it!
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Metal_Guy (6580)
2007-03-14 16:41:38
I do think everyone has been through that - as her out for a coffee or something - something that isn't necessarily a 'date' thing, so she doesn't feel threatened at all - and see if you can gauge her feelings for you. If she seems to like you, ease the conversation towards a relationship. And yes, stay off the topic of sex until she clearly wants to discuss it. It sounds like you'll be able to think of plenty of other stuff to say.

As to the being a 'goodie-goodie' - nothing wrong with that, it's called being a gentleman. And I think you should be applauded for wanting to be like that.

Best of luck!
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esthurrxP (6826)
2007-03-21 22:50:00
its normal, dont worry
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little_white_angel (6940)
2007-04-04 22:49:26
relax, its normal
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dragoon188 (5130)
2007-04-18 19:09:41
err, just do it and get over with it, longer u wait, more obsessed u will get wiht her
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finny (5994)
2007-05-25 20:55:55
i like a girl who likes me but has a bf and i keep having images about her really naughty images. yet she wont dump her bf for me cause she says she likes him more. i wonder y shes going out with him gezze ok all im trying to say is ask her out
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feelssogood (8676)
2007-06-05 13:47:46
girls have a sex drive too its ok just relaxe and be honest
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aperson (9713)
2007-08-14 20:47:25
hust ask her out, if she says yesgood, if she says no it will be much easier to move on, and i wount think about sex for like a year after going out...but thats just me so
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sexii_prep (10620)
2007-09-17 19:52:17
omg you are SO sweet! i wish there were more guys like you.=]

[sorry cant answer you question :P]
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