turned on after

dunno to be honest. why dont u get turned on though while you doing it

Yeah its normal. In retrospect you can look back and really appreciate what he did and how the atmospere was. While you are doing it you have to focus on what you are doing, and it makes it harder to appreciate.
Its like when you get an award. Its good, but thinking about it makes you feel warmer afterwards.

Plug a camera into the tv and watch yourself making out as you do it.
That way you can appreciate it there and then.

And send us all a copy.

Maybe you don't think about it while you make out with him. If you make out with him and think in your head about it then you will get turn on.

Hmm,

well...has this happened w/ other guy's you've made-out w/ in the passed? Or is he the only one you've made-out w/? Because I know, like - it depend's on the person & how long you've been w/ them, how much you trust them & how attracted you are to them, etc - it's SO complicated! I know it sound's stupid, it shouldn't be 'that' complicated, right? - You like someone, you make-out, you should just 'be' turned-on! But not always, I mean...sometime's it take's a while to fully feel comfortable w/ the person & w/ yourself, etc to feel all your senses coming-together & also the right moment...just a lot of thing's play a part in it. I know, w/ passed boyfriend's & dates; like anyone I've kissed/made-out w/, it all depended on all those factor's - it doesn't always 'just feel-right', especially not the first time w/ that person, etc! Like w/ my first boyfriend, he was really macho & not a great guy, (that's why I dumped him) ;), lol! But yeah, I mean obviously that played a part when we did stuff...I didn't feel much w/ him, as apposed to other boyfriends. So you've g2 consider diff' factor's. Hope this help's.

Peace & all-best!

I do that too sometimes...

What would turn me on while making out would be if we were in private, i would grab his dick. that always works for me.And he doesn't min d b/c he told me that turns him on too.

i am fond of asking my girl to close her eyes & guess where i will kiss & touch her next, without telling me. then, if i kiss her where she guessed she gets to open her eyes. this game usually ends with her eyes shut the entire encounter. also i find all intimacy is more exciting if there is that anticipation.

:)

*was fond of...

im exactly the same way... it sux.. but gets a little better over time at least

I can see how that would happen because you are all caught up un the moment! And, then once you are done it's LIKE WOW!!!

So yeah and as long as you can have good sex after why not?

Yes, but you maby don't think of him as someone you rilly like, and make it bether afterwords! How sad for you!