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am i a good person?
im 16 and gay i was never popular in elementary school but when i hit 7th grade my popularity skyrocketed and i have tons of friends and i wanted to tellthem imgay but afraid they wont like me any more and ill go back to who i used to be what im gettin at am i so vain for choseing popularity over homesty dose that make me a horrible person??? please please tell me what should i do
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Comments (15)
i didn't even read ur post and I still think ur a dick.
Improve your writing.

Not telling people you are gay because you are afraid of what they might think makes you a scared person.
Not good not bad, but scared.
Mate your fine.

Ive told most people im bi, and fuck you should see the chicks that come to me, i have heaps of guy and girl friends, if you feel confident within your own skin thats all the matters, and if people wish to discriminate you against your preferred sex, well they are just fucking immature retards that dont appreciate everyone is an individual.
@: Mimir2
ur not very nice
telling people that mean alot to you your gay is a really hard thing to do. if you dont feel comfortable telling friends that you are gay then dont do it, even if you think they have a right to know, its up to you to tell them ok?? your not a bad person ok, your being honest with yourself for writing the post in the first place. its natural to be thinking how you are thinking. if you are a guy try telling a girl that you TRUST fully and you know that she will keep it to yourself. if you are a chick the other way around. i hoped this helped i really do.
good luck
your a cunt
It's not about the amount of friends you have the the amount that would stick with you even when you tell them you're gay. The true friends will stick with you and the others aren't worth your time.
Well, here's the absolute truth; I suspect allot of your freinds would prefer not to know you were gay. There, I said it.
Before you tell them, I'd try to find out what their opinion is of gays in general. Then again, it's possible that YOU would rather not know. Some of your freinds might actually find you more interesting, others will probably be a bit stand-off-ish.

But as a matter of courtisy, at least don't waste any girl's time. That's our job :)
go and hide under a rock ya fag
If your friends cannot accept you for who you are, then they are not worth a second of your time.

I would do what deamond suggested, and find out their general opinion first, and then only tell the ones who you are very close to and know will accept you if you are afraid of being hated.
don't tell them. Your sexual orientation does not define who you are as a person, so there is no need for them to know, especially if you suspect that they would act differently. I don't walk around telling people I like it up the ass...alot.
Shit I just did.
oh yes you did, now shave me slowly.
if their really ure friends theyll accept u 4 who u r
7th grade and alrdy know? thats amazing
kids would probably dislike you at that age if they foudn out that u were gay
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