am i a good person?
im 16 and gay i was never popular in elementary school but when i hit 7th grade my popularity skyrocketed and i have tons of friends and i wanted to tellthem imgay but afraid they wont like me any more and ill go back to who i used to be what im gettin at am i so vain for choseing popularity over homesty dose that make me a horrible person??? please please tell me what should i do
Not telling people you are gay because you are afraid of what they might think makes you a scared person.
Not good not bad, but scared.
Ive told most people im bi, and fuck you should see the chicks that come to me, i have heaps of guy and girl friends, if you feel confident within your own skin thats all the matters, and if people wish to discriminate you against your preferred sex, well they are just fucking immature retards that dont appreciate everyone is an individual.
good luck
But as a matter of courtisy, at least don't waste any girl's time. That's our job :)
I would do what deamond suggested, and find out their general opinion first, and then only tell the ones who you are very close to and know will accept you if you are afraid of being hated.
Shit I just did.
kids would probably dislike you at that age if they foudn out that u were gay