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About 2 Years ago I thought I had met the girl of my dreams. I knew that age was not going to stop me from being with this girl some day. She knew this and she felt the same way. We had a very serious, physical relationship that both of us were comfortable in. After a year and 7 months, to my suprise it was "to much" for her all of a sudden. For a month after that I couldn't talk to her cause I was so confused because she was contradicting herself. But, after 3 months now, I have began to talk to her again and I feel the same about her that I did before. She admits to feeling the same. I will be honest, I have had casual sex with her after dating, and that seems the same as it was. Am I just setting myself up for pain again? Should I be trying to re-do something that didn't work the first time? -Thanks
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Comments (8)
cabinet70 (4440)
2007-01-19 00:51:13
No dont go back to an old hole mate find a new one
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callo (3023)
2007-01-19 07:13:59
try and find somewone new, but also still have sex with her.
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CrazyMoFo (1953)
2007-01-19 13:07:46
Mama say wat ?
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thomas9122 (5377)
2007-01-20 00:22:13
@: callo
Hey thanks a lot i have really been thinking that and it seems the best option
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callo (3023)
2007-01-20 07:18:56
@: thomas9122
ofcourse it is. sex with a hot chick and searching for a new one, you are a lucky guy.
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greengal (7305)
2007-04-06 19:19:38
i think if you like her so much you should go for it again
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OuCh_ThAt_HuRt (8544)
2007-05-27 23:56:51
Leave the past in the past.....start new with her.
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JanIAm (10668)
2007-09-18 01:33:12
My experience, for whatever it's worth, is that once you've broken up, things are never quite the same. Usually, when someone says that a relationship is "too much" for them, it's a euphemism for some other emotion that they either don't want to admit or don't understand. It's possible, though, that all the two of you really needed was a breather and some time to experience some mutual growth. Unfortunately, it's difficult for people to grow in the same direction, I've found. My advice would be to keep an open mind and be honest in your relationship. Dishonesty is at the heart of most relationship problems because people fear pain. But since dishonesty ultimately causes pain, you're much better off cutting through the bullshit and being who you really are! Hopefully, she'll do the same.
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