Am I Gay?

look at a pair of tits, problem solved.

think of what you would rather do, suck dick or eat pussy.

are you attracted to guys?? if so then you either gay or bi!! surely you could have figured that out yourself!

first of all... how old are you? you might just be at a stage in which you question your whole life, including your sexuality. is very normal and i guess we all do question it at some level. of course some people has more trouble than others. anyways, you dont want to be gay and your "gay experience" was when you were 5 y/o!?!?!? come on, you were probably assalted sexually or just played with some kid that had seen his parents having sex or so. just get that idea out of your head, dont think about the problem so much and it will be solved with time. hang out with guys that like girls and talk about girls. you will get the hang of it and you will reasure the natural and logic instinc of heterosexuality.
hope it helps
galeni

you are thinking wayyyyyy to hard about this....just say fuck it and who ever and where ever you end up putting it in....well there you go!

Step 1:find some straight porn and start wanking
Step 2:wank to some gay porn the next day.
Step 3:compare the time it took you to cum and the fastest will be your preference

Does it really matter? O.o
It's not like you can change your sexual orientation. Don't think too much about it. Try it out, then you'll find out! ^___^

WUT HAPPENED WHEN U WERE 5? AND MABYE UR BI

poop

Having effeminate qualities mentally or physically is seperate from having a homosexual orientation. Its not a pakage deal.

Normal. 48% of the population has had a gay experience at a young age, from 4-9 years old. Its just experimental, dont consider yourself a faggot, or gay. Also, you never know, unless you try. Don't shut down the part of you that says yes. Dont judge yourself either. You are, what you are.

The first comment is by far the most useful.
Look at a pair of boobs, sneek a peek at some front bottom, get an erection and voila..your'e not a gay.
If you like hurting men on the heath then you're a gay..

wah happened when u were five? i really wanna know

If what you experienced when you were 5 is the only sexual experience you have ever had, it may be that you associate sexual arousal with the same sex because it is your only experience. I jacked off with a guy when I was 5 and when I was 11 I let a guy suck my dick. These were the only sexual experiences I'd ever had for a long time, and because of them I had predominantly same sex fantasies because it was the only kind of erotic memory my mind had to draw from. I was very confused for a long time, but after much thought I now self-identity as a heterosexual with a homoerotic inclination. It's my personal opinion that the idea of people being ether homosexual and heterosexual isn't really the best way to think of it. I think everyone is by and that they may sway a certain way depending on what is going on at the time. They are some people whose orientation runs so deep in them that they aren't going to sway, but the inclination is still there somewhere. Don't worry about being gay; if you want to be straight just encourage that part of you. I'm not saying you should bury your homoerotic side. When same sex attraction happens and you don't want it just take that energy and put it into something else. When you're hot and bothered wash your car or lift some weights or something like that. When heterosexual feelings happen encourage them. I'm not saying you should sit around watching hetero porn and masturbating. I mean do thins that make you feel masculine. Get some good buddies you can bum around with, or get a girl friend you can spoil. Pick the part of yourself you want to be predominant and go with that. You can always reverse it latter if you change your mind. I'm not telling you to pretend to be something your not while repressing your true self. You are multi dimensional-complex-complicated. Chose the aspects of yourself you would like to be predominant and prune them.

Generally, people only wonder about something if they have doubts. Ask yourself how you got the point where you have doubts. If it's society then kick that to the curb. If it's your peers or family kick them to the curb. You are the only one that can analyze you. I'm not saying be alone for the rest of your life, however, what I am saying is don't listen to antagonistic people. People like that are only going to drag you down and if you have low self confidence you are going to allow them to hurt you and that isn't good. If you are a type that was and is currently being emotionally abused then you are going to seek the negative attention coz that is what you are used to and know of no other way. I agree with jondrinkwater when he said those were the only experiences he had to pull from coz that's absolutely correct. You need to look at all your epxeriences and remember how you felt during them. After canceling out all the negatives and you truly have an honest inclination to know about the same sex find someone that isn't going to treat you like dirt that you trust and have an experience. It's all about how the person treats you to know if you are going to like it or not. If the guy treats you like a piece of ass and like shit you're not gonna like it when you possibly could like it. I personally think you should have more than one experience to base a decision off of, but everyone is different. You need to have a good pool of experience to draw your judgement from, not just one experience from each side. If you do like it, decide how it is compared to the opposite sex. If you like both equally, you're bi. If you like one more than the other then its obvious. Who really wants to live a life that is condemned by society? No one really would. You have to learn to accept yourself and the things around you. It takes a great deal of patience and time for you to do that. Nothing can "make you gay." You are who you are. We all do things we wouldn't normally do if we weren't feeling pressure. It's normal. However, identifying yourself as something that you aren't isn't healthy to you. It will only corrupt you. Good luck!

if ur gay call me. We'll party it up you freaking gay sex fiend.

no your not gay some ppl dill with this stuff just go get a girl you'll be fine

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MASTURBATION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I think its unfortunate that a person put that upon you at such an early age. Was that person much older than you? You probably have an identity crisis. What would you find more fulfilling? To be with a man or a woman? Have you ever had genuine feelings for amother woman? I've never heard a gay person say they chose to be gay. I've always heard they've been gay for as long as they can remember. Talk to a therapist, someone who can help sort out your feelings.

why do you assosiate it with sex. go out with a boy and if u like it then maybe ur bi or gay. if ur not, then do the same with a girl. gd luck.

do whatever you brain said, just because you dont like gay sex, dose not mean you are gay... i am gay, and i dont want to stick my penis in another mans ass

test it out, nah u cant tell ur gau until puberty

tits!~

first have sex with a man then have sex with a woman and see witch one u like best. if u like the 1 with the man that means ur gay but if u like the woman that means ur not gay

It's a choice, a preference, you have to make that decision for yourself, look at the pros and cons of being with the same sex, look at the pros and cons of being with the opposite sex, discuss it with one of your most trusted friend, not a guy, but a girl, because girls are more likely to take it better than the other.

Make sure you're just not so horny that something considered "wrong" or "forbidden" has made you turned on, because if that's all it really is, you're not gay. Believe it or not, alot of men who are purely heterosexual have gay fantasties, but never act on them. To get off, sometimes really sexually "dirty" things must be thought up.

Also, some guys fit your personality, but they're not gay, this just means you're in touch with being you, and a man can cry just as much as a woman can, we're really not that different, it's just men are forced to be different, they're forced into the "you're not a man if you..."

That's pure BS, btw.

This is normal, by my standards anyway.
The are a few things you could do:

1. You could try and shove the thoughts to the back of your head and try and forget.

2. You could cope with you're thoughts and possibly be content with the theory that your gay. Please, dont use the words queer and faggot around us. Gays.

And 3. DUH! If you have gay sex, that means ur gay, also a fantasy is okay now and then.

Thats all i have to offer, So wanna tell us what happend when u were five.

if you have to try to like girls then you are gay