Why don't the guys at school find me attractive?

could it be that boys find you unattractive?? maybe it is your personality! haha im kidding with you, stuff those boys. the right one will come along (one day)

Forget boys find yourself an older man we know just what you girls want

Do you ever smile at guys? It is a signal that you are welcome to friendships.Guys will often not approach girls who they think will turn them down or are disinterested. No one likes rejection. You may be sending some bad vibes that guys pick up on and avoidyou.Intelligence can also be intimidating to many guys. They may feel threatened by a girl who achieves more academically and not someone they prefer to hang with. They may view you more of a competitor than as a potential close friend because of your differences.Goofiness is not a trait that guys usually are attracted to. You may seek some tips from those who can suggest attractive yet respectful casual attire and makeup tips.I've seen girls change their hairstyle and a simple makeover can be effective in getting noticed.Height may also be a factor as guys moreover are attracted to girls who are either average height or less than average height. Girls who are on the tall side have a harder time finding mates, this is true over the history of mankind. Some things you have no control over, but focus on the things you can control.Approach guys and ask them if they'd like to go with you someplace on the weekend.Pick up tickets in advance to a show, concert, sporting event and then ask. Many girls don't feel comfortable being the pursuer but sometimes a little work goes a long way.Goodluck!

I'll bang you just leave a number sweetheart.

You sound pretty good to me. I don't know what is wrong with those guys.

It makes sense. As for the goffyness, though, I don't dress goofy, I just act that way.(constantly cracking jokes) I wear formfitting clothing, and am soft and clean with makeup.

Aww, thanks roger49!

Above was too sisophous

There is no formula to make things work in the love department. And, happiness has no protocol when it comes to courting. If guys are not approaching you, approach them. If they decline, or back away, that's fine, you wouldn't want them. Friendship is a two way street, if both are not on the same page it is not one you would want to pursue.

Lower your expectations as to whom you would be willing to spend time with. Looks alone are often superficial and not a good indicator of compatibility. If you are more open-minded, take the lead, I would bet there are loads of guys who would welcome you as a friend. Don't view guys who do not accept you and/or an invitation as a slight, move on to others. It's all a numbers game.

Every guy (heterosexual ones) has been turned down by females, so take nothing personally if you take the pursuer role.

Years ago, I declined girls offers to go out who approached me and did not once think anything whatsoever less of them for approaching me. Rather, I look upon them as strong and confident for having the fortitude to approach me.

Thankyou. I supose I was just selfconcious about being blunt, that I hadn't the courage to be forward in the love department, but i'll give it a try and take things in stride. :)

Hmmm, possible sugestions;

*Try smiling/giggleing more
*Wear less clothes
*Wear makeup
*When talking to guys, a simple touch on the arm
*move your hips more
*Bra; loose it (or at least figure out a way to giggle more)
*accidentally drop something and bend over
*(only for the truely daring) sneak into boy's toilets and write a dirty inuendo about yourself
*Chew on chubba Chups (Those are basically chewable round lollies on a stick)
*If you wear glases, get contacts.
*Dye hair a different colour, should at least get attention.

*In back, pull up undies up a bit and pull down pants a bit
*On windy day, wear a skirt
*on rainy day, have shower in clothes, and maintain wet chest thruought day
*On cold day, no bra.
*Back straight, choulders back, chest out
*When not smiling, try to stick out tongue. Just the tip, maybe testing your tongue between your bottom lip and your top teeth. or lick your lips.
*Stick things in your mouth, like lolipops or pencils.
*Wink at guys you like
*Wear a shirt and "accidentally" forget some buttons
*White T-shirt with black bra
*Thong/G-string, brightl colour, completely different colour from your skin or the rest of your clothes. Red or pink maybe. something that will stand out.
*Wear clothes with words on butt or chest. "Roxy" jeans for example.

You are a 36D, trust me: They are attracted.

Wear clothes that are revealing. Short skirts and plunging necklines will work every time. You show those 36Ds off and you'll get plenty of attention!

you're just fat

your a bitch hellokitty! she is NOT fat! shes tall!

and BTW,dont be a plastic awesome_chck(not to steriotype)but jeez you dont need boys falling all over you 24/7,gosh!

sorry forgot something ^...start reading books(more,if you allready do)quietly in the corner and act like you dont even see them,they like to get attention(if there cute,or even if there not)and if they arent getting attention from EVERY girl in the room,if there cute,they'll know it and try to fix it,but again DONT BE A PLASTIC,and if ya do,dont let me know

PS:*sigh*...yet another mind,brainwashed with boys...headed for the downward spiral that is popularity...*sigh*

HEY CUT D BULL>>>
Babe you are young attractive and I can bet, one hot cick. Smart is hot... babe, look its just a few more FuKD up days at school but trust me, if you are getting it from older guys that must mean that you yourself is a mature looking person. just cill ma boo, ya cool as ice..
Stright from Jamaica

I agree with cabinet70 on the forget boys go 4 older men, but make sure their not REALLY old, like if ur young don't go over 3 to 5 years older than u. I have the same problem and I'm a junior and none of the boys at my school like me, but they are immature. My first real boyfriend was 19 he's 20 now, and I was 17 and he was alot better than any of those little boys would have been. lol hope it helps. lol

i get what you mean, same happens to me.
i've had about 3 guys ask me out at school, but i wouldn't go out with them as they are very immature and the type who ask a different girl out everyday!
i don't think i get alot of attention at school, but i do out of school, like the other day when i was walking i had this really cute guy go past in the car who looked and smiled at me, lol.
sorry, this comment thing is meant for advice but sometimes i just go ON!..:)
anyway, i bet some guys are just intimidated by you maybe and think its easier to just flirt with the girls at school who like to act like whores.lol

You do not come over as a typical 15 year old girl living in the UK either from your post or your profile introduction. You will have to wait for the right boy to come along (I can also understand why older men notice you). I also assume you enjoy classical music and the arts? Just wait for the right lad and you will be happy

Regards B&J.

The above comment was intended for "Be Happy"

Well Obviously they feel intimidated by you, you have a beautiful figure, so i'd suggest asking some guy out unless you're too embarassed to

Flash ur tits. And they will fall at your feet

Seriously, I think some guys are just scared to ask pretty girls out for fear of rejection. I think they think that if a girl is good looking they must be taken. Sounds dumb I know but some people are plagued by good looks!!!

Then again I don't see anything wrong with a girl asking a guy to go out!

"some people are plagued by good looks!!!"

Tell me about it.
With the years i have just learned to live with it.

you'll find the right guy who will except you for who you are so don't change

Intimidation perhaps?

just because your fukin ugly on the outside that does not mean ur buitifull on the inside.... every girl has some amazing in here. that might be ur talent..

Find someone who likes your personality and you true beuty will reveal itself and the waiting game is best for anyone just falling for a person you don't know that much is wrong so just wait a while and all will be revealed my friend!

Face of a mule?

That's not true. I am a 38D and once oevery blue moon I get men who are turned off by large breasts.