sex hurts

i'm 18 years old about to have sex for the first time with someone i really care about the only problem is that i'm nervous about the pain for first timers on a scale from 1 to 10 how much does it hurt? is there anything i can do to make it less painful?

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Comments (19)

babyangel2580 (1623)

2007-01-22 15:05:48

1) i don't know never had sex
2) they say the first time ALWAYS hurts.
3) use protection

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crazyme (4954)

2007-01-22 16:05:13

yes it's hurt. I'll give it around 2 or 3. If you afraid of getting hurt, try to use lube. If he uses protection then it's less hurt. Try to use protection all the time.

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**Chicksta** (5446)

2007-01-22 17:52:32

It hurts a tiny bit but after that its great!!!

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outbackpubfighter (5438)

2007-01-22 23:18:36

use lube. masterbate with a dildo a few times.

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mm2184 (5042)

2007-01-22 23:25:10

for me, it hurt a little bit (5.5-6) use a lubricated condom and tell your bf to go slow

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restless (5072)

2007-01-23 01:32:48

just make sure your boyfriend takes it easy and go slow. It won't hurt that much.

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donkeyspuzz (3277)

2007-01-23 16:33:39

Why do it with someone you care about? The first time is always rubbish so it should be done while drunk, with a stranger.
That way you can just forget about it and have it out of the way.
I am free most sundays.

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Shaka_Zulu (3938)

2007-01-24 22:15:11

i'm free wed-sat! loL!

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freakravingdoll (5555)

2007-01-29 02:43:44

well i was so high i couldnt feel a brick if it hit me on the head....plus it was like 5 sec. anyways...thats nice that you waited....

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meandmypussy (5828)

2007-02-10 19:33:00

it's about a 5, but it feels great

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aintnobarbiedoll_x (5032)

2007-02-11 00:52:11

My first time didn't hurt and it was with a seriously big one. Like, porn star big. He was gentle and used lube so it really didnt hurt.
Though I didn't have a cherry.
If you're SO scared of the pain, use a dildo for a week before the big day comes. It'll not hurt on the big day, and you can control how much you have to take the first time round.

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DrSham (5677)

2007-02-18 12:37:38

On your 1-10 scale sex for the first time will probably be a 9 or 10 if you get done in the anus...so to reduce this down to a 2 or 3 make sure it's vaginal and lube your minky up to the max with KY.
Remember if he makes you laugh during the sexual act you'll feel more relaxed and this will help so ask him to dress up like Ronald MacDonald when he's banging you.

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doubleDtittys (5761)

2007-03-01 09:39:54

it hurt it was like a 2 or a 3 and then after that it was the best thing ever!!!!!!! I sceam and moan and orgasm all the time!!!!

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Breezy (6041)

2007-03-02 17:41:38

The first time hurts.
It hurt really bad for me, but only for about 10 seconds of pain and then it started to feel good.

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hellokitty (6436)

2007-03-08 16:29:59

10..its just as bad as giving birth