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WHY DONT I GO TO AN PARTIES??
I've just searched on bebo for people who go to my school and in their photos thay all seem to hang out together, drinking, smoking, etc. They all look really happy, but I FEEL REALLY LEFT OUT. I'm 16 and I've never gone to party - only rarely do I go out with a friend or two. I just feel so depressed because of it. They all look SO happy in the pictures, posing and stuff, chilling with thier mates.
I'm getting so depressed aat looking at the pics, its as if I'm missing out on life. Sometimes I think about suicide and often cut myself.... I don't know what to do. People just dont seem to like me - I get in loads of fights as well. People spit on my, kick me, etc, but I dont do anything to provoke it. I also get insulted MANY times a day and it just brings be down. I think I'm gonna miss school tomorrow.... and maybe the day after as well.
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Comments (18)
There will always be a loser at school, sadly you're it.
STFU bobert. I hope this isn't a fake post. Dude you remind me of me. Whenever those kids hit you hit them back. There is nothing worse than just taking it. Try to make friends outside of school. Look forward to university. I'm not the best person to ask about this cos my life is still a mess at 21. Just keep your chin up and eat as much as you can to bulk up that should keep the dickheads away. Good luck mate!
STFU? Sorry, I'm not into illiterate taxidermy.
If they hit you, hit them back. If you get in trouble just say you try to protect yourself. Try to make friends at work. In school there are so many people try to make friend with them in classes. Don't kill yourself or cut yourself because of that. You still have your times to find more friends. You missed one party..there will be many party later on if you're in college. You will never miss it. I thought I miss my fun when I was 21 but no I still can have fun now. I even go to club, bar, parties. I don't miss it. There are plenty of times ok?
I strongly suggest you seek counseling. You can begin at school and speak to a counselor and explain what you posted here and ask if they can refer you to a place that may be of help.

There are likely some factors going on in your life that are causing you distress in socializing and/or preventing you from attaining a healthy social network.

You will have to be patient and be willing to try out several places until you find the right match. Counselors and/or counseling groups are so varied that there is no one type that fits all people. Inquire within your own community for group counseling for adolescents that focuses on people skills/social skills.

The reason why I suggest this is such sources will often have people experiencing similar problems as you describe and help you to sort it out and resolve issues. They will empower you if you find the right group and help you to recognize what is causing you obstacles to what you want to achieve.

At age 16, you are so young that you do not understand all the time you have coming to you. Hardships over a few years during adolescence is nothing when compared to a lifetime you have ahead.

When those other people seem to be having fun now, they will go through rough times as you feel now, likely far worse. So, stop comparing yourself to others, seek assistance and remember that your whole life is ahead of you, dismiss a bad year or two that you had.

You also may be taking to people that are not your friends and are better off not dealing with them. True friends will not insult you. Note those who do this and stay away from them. Form new friendships instead. Good luck!!!!
I like to poke losers. Just under their shoulder above the chest. Poke it really hard so they wince and cower into a dark corner.
I love picking on losers.
It means SHUT THE FUCK UP. Bobert. :)
Just take solace in the fact that most of the people partying and fucking around at the age of 16 will still be doing it when they're 30; sitting on a mound of their illegitimate children picking used needles out of their arm pits whilst spraying insecticide on their crab-ridden pustulent genitalia.
Well how about you give it a try. Fantainfinite. :)
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Fantaininfinite fuck off you piece of shit!!
so if high school is not real life I guess that means you aren't living then are you, stargirl?
parties are overated anyhoo, you betta off.
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i get what you mean stargirl, thanks. as for you Fantaininfinite, you obviously love to say gay stuff about me, are implying that you are gay yourself? seems to me you would love to suck my dick since you talk about that shit all the time.
you should take out your willy and pee on them next time.
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