it depends on the circumstances around your first time. If you build it up too much then you are bound to be dissapointed. I was over-eager, so it ended badly. But if it is just natural then even with pain it can be a good experience.

Hmm...It was hurt for me for the first time. I didn't get orgasm at that time but hurt. I didn't get ready for s*x at that time and it was just naturally happened so I didn't use lube or anything to make it hurt less.

Lets find out together baby.

well, for me it was awesome. i had to go really slow. i gave her generous oral firt so no lube was needed. ;) still had to go reeeely slow tho.

I'm not a girl but trust me, every girl I've 'broken in' fucking loves it. I'm free this sunday.

I lost it to my long term girlfreind in her mums car outside my house. I lasted about three pumps before squirting over her skirt. She was crying and there was blood on my cock.

I still masterbate about this almost 20 years later.

every guy on here is mental or horny,you shouldn't ask strangers about these things

ask ya mum or other close female.

are u^^^ fucking kidding me??! Like i would ever ask my mom. I'm pretty sure that she doesn't even think that i know what sex IS rather than wonder about it.

In my experience a girl's first time is NEVER as good as she wanted it to be...
Don't build it up too much, don't expect the greatest moment of your life... the breaking of the hymen (virginity) is uncomfortable so make sure your partner is very gentle ;)

yeah u feel a penis going into ur vagina!! Duh and then you orgasm Dont you masturbate?

Give the girl a break, it's a perfectly decent question.

I don't remember pain my first time. It may have been masked by the passion of the situation. We went slow. Don't force anything, or that may hurt. Lube is a good idea, or lots of foreplay to get you started.

And as far as masturbation - I'm 26 years old, and only started masturbating about 2 years ago, on my husband's suggestion. Everyone in their own time. . .

your hubbie suggested u masturbate? wow. u must really REALLY bea handfuul!

Two, rather nice handfuls, as a matter of fact. . . and I display them proudly.

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lol!

Not so much o.o, as O.O :)

ROFLMAO! I concede! I concede!

Okay. this sounds kinda bad, but. stick something in you for practice, like something that wont break in you. Like i used a vibrating toothbrush. and just when you loose your virginity, it doesnt hurt as bad at all. and when your doing the toothbrush thing, it doesnt hurt either cuz you can go at your own pace.

I do not recall when I "popped my cherry" so to speak, because I was using tampons before I ever had sex.
I do remember sex hurting quite a bit the first time.

My first real time I was knocked out and tore apart while being raped so I really don't know. I consider my guy now to have been my first and I love him so it was special and he was really cautious in what he did because of what had happened. I think it has to be in the top ten best things in my life. If you love the guy it just makes it so much more special!!!

Well my 14 year old friend has just done it for the first time and has done it twice since. She also took the liberty of telling me all about it (no idea why I listened because it's kinda sick but it was her choice anyways...) and she reckoned it was amazing and advised being on the bottom. Apparently it hurts at first but gets better.
Dont go out and try it though. Make sure you think before you do anything because I think my friend made the wrong choice. Stick to "practise".

The guys on here need their fucking teeth kicked in. Don`t mind them. It depends how old you are, Don`t rush to have sex to be like everyone else. Just wait until you feel like having sex and your into it. Take the to Make sure its not some idiot like brothershammass or donkeyspuzz. I`m sure it will feel good if you do it at the right time with the right person as corny as that sounds lol.

im a lad and a virgin too i realy wanna no how it feels too mabye we can meet

email me PLEASE
goughyinthemorningdoodardoodar@hotmail.co.uk

I dont care

hurts for a few days bleeds alot

I'm a woman and my first time was AMAZING! I had wanted to have sex for a long time but i'm smart so I waited until I found someone great to have sex with. He wasnt a virgin. He was older than me. I recommend an older man. They know what they are doing and can get you wet before you have sex so it wont hurt. I had a little bit of pain when he tried to go to deep but he knew it hurt the first time he did it so he didnt do that anymore. My hymen didnt break when I had sex. I think it might have been because I masturbated for almost four years before I had sex. So you should defintally do that and get to know your own body and what you like. Also, make sure you have sex with someone you like. Date someone for awhile before you have sex with them to know what thier intentions are. I waited 2 months. Good luck!

hurts and bleeds... and your area will be uncomfortable for a few days.... it could be that the bf I lost it to had he biggest cock I have ever seen.....but I would suggest when you do it get drunk so it wont hurt as much.