what the heck?
I know i have asked similar questions on this site but i really want to get more answers. I am a 13 year old girl. I always day dream about living a different life with men usually off the tv. In the day dreams we dont have anything sexual going on or anything, they are like father figures. I day dream that i do something that they said not to. And get in trouble about it. Its physical as well, liek they hit me. But not being abusive or anything.
Does anyone know why the heck i love thinking about this so much? I am so confused but i cant stop thinking about it. And could it be unchristian?
i dont want to tell you not to follow your parents, you should!!, but have another light on your path...
hope it works.
galeni
This is nothing to worry about, rather it shows you are creative and able to find pleasure by using your mind.
I found many full-time at home housewives find daytime soap operas so much fun to follow because it provids them with stimualation that is not found for the most part in their real life. Let's face it, soap operas have all types of characters, many leading adventurous lives and planning dastardly deeds that makes them an enticement and so popular.
So, keep on doing as you are, and quit worrying.
hun you really just crave a good father figure. you may already have a dad... but ask youself this: is he loving and supportive? does he discipline you when you've done something wrong or does he just not care?
luckily you don't seem too badly affected, but i'd say you have a classic case of daddy issues. i'd see a counselor about it if i were you, a good one, before these fantasies turn into something worse.
Don't think this is anything un-normal though.