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Nothing Below the Belt.

I've been with my boyfriend for a little under two years and overall we have a happy relationship. But, he's a (complete T8) paraplegic and is VERY uncomfortable when it comes to sex. We can do everything above his belt line but as soon as I go to unbutton his pants he gets discouraged and stops. Is this normal?
Do you think it's normal?
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salivate (5480)
2007-01-27 22:29:28
Have you asked whether he even has function or any feeling down there?

If he has, although I doubt it if he is 'complete T8', it may also be a hygiene isssue. He may not feel clean enough at that time.

This is probably something you really need to discuss with him.
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george_bojo_II (5543)
2007-01-28 09:11:00
talk to the poor bugga.
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Oracle (6586)
2007-04-07 07:21:04
You need to talk, he may not have feeling down there or is ashamed. Confront him
Peace Out
Oracle
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slackjawedyokel (6678)
2007-04-11 17:12:09
these kind of questions really freak me out.i wish i hadnt seen it.i was trying to eat a meatloaf sandwich,so much for that.
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ashnano (9484)
2007-07-20 17:48:49
maybe he worry you with be dissapointed by whis penis
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MatthewDark (10431)
2007-09-07 18:22:24
oh man . . . your bf is a paraplegic . . .
wow um maybe it's honestly cuz he is incapable of getting an erection . . . hell if I was paraplegic and incapable of erections, I'd certainly be depressed if my gf tried to fondle me. You should discuss it with him.
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