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confused about love
worked with someone for 7 years, became best friends. Only problem was that he also became good friends with my husband. We got really close, and we told each other how we felt, we felt the same. We talked a lot about it, and made the decision to make things work for us. When all was about to end in my marriage he freaked and quit and freaked out on me. Should I get over him, having a lot of trouble doing that
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roger49 (3711)
2007-01-28 16:33:08
Yes, you should get over him. Stay with your husband, I'm sure you married him for a reason. If that reason still exists you should stick with him.
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sisophous (3738)
2007-01-28 17:20:22
If you have kids with your husband, then stay with him. Only scenario where I'd say leave your husband is if he is abusing you. As to this guy you worked with for years and thought so highly of, cut him out and do not contact him. Friendship is a two-way street, you can't make someone like you or care for you.

As to getting over him, that takes time, you can't stop thoughts/feelings by flicking a switch, it gradually fades over time. We can't control feelings, but we can control behaviors/actions. It's a loss that heals over time, sort of like a death in the family.
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smithee (4389)
2007-01-28 18:12:30
Hello!
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george_bojo_II (5543)
2007-01-28 18:35:14
goodbye!
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