confused about love http://isitnormal.com/story/7092/ goodbye! http://isitnormal.com/story/7092/#comment-59912 2007-01-28 18:35:14 Hello! http://isitnormal.com/story/7092/#comment-59891 2007-01-28 18:12:30 If you have kids with your husband, then stay with him. Only scenario where I'd say leave your husband is if he is abusing you. As to this guy you worked with for years and thought so highly of, cut him out and do not contact him. Friendship is a two-way street, you can't make someone like you or care for you. As to getting over him, that takes time, you can't stop thoughts/feelings by flicking a switch, it gradually fades over time. We can't control feelings, but we can control behaviors/actions. It's a loss that heals over time, sort of like a death in the family. http://isitnormal.com/story/7092/#comment-59871 2007-01-28 17:20:22 Yes, you should get over him. Stay with your husband, I'm sure you married him for a reason. If that reason still exists you should stick with him. http://isitnormal.com/story/7092/#comment-59855 2007-01-28 16:33:08