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Sex toy dilema
Ok, I'm talking to my boyfriend about new things we should try, and he tells me to suggest some. I know he likes to watch me get off on my own so i suggested trying a sex toy next time like maybe a vibrator. Now, he thinks he doesnt satisfy me, that hes not good enough for me. He's all kinds of insecure about himself now and hes afraid he wont be able to get excited enough to fool around anymore. How can I fix it so that he won't feel insecure anymore?
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Comments (13)
Bobert (4857)
2007-01-30 11:16:34
Point out he can either:

A. Be an insecure, paranoid baby.

Or.

B. Get some sex.

He'll make the right decision in the end.
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roger49 (3711)
2007-01-30 15:23:24
Tell him you won't let him watch you get off until he satisfies you. If he can satisfy you, problem solved.
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vaver16 (2811)
2007-01-30 15:36:11
why



bother



whith



him



......
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cabinet70 (4440)
2007-01-30 18:09:35
get him to use it on you and use while your actually fucking that will help
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crazyme (4954)
2007-01-30 20:06:34
Tell him to help you out. When you just lay there and enjoy, he will think that he doesn't do a good job.
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restless (5072)
2007-01-31 00:40:11
sex toys have a tendency to make men insecure, but tell him plastic, silicon, or rubber could never replace a man. :) In reality sex toys are supposed to supplement sex or give you some pleasure while your man is not around. They are meant to replace him. Maybe that'll make him feel a better.

Personally, I think sex toys can be nice, but there's nothing like a man on top of me doing what they do best.
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restless (5072)
2007-01-31 00:40:38
Not meant to replace him* Typo.
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mymunchkins (5639)
2007-02-02 01:54:56
Don't get one shaped like a penis - big mistake. Start with some type of clitoral stimulator, personal massager, whatever. Lots of men don't want to see another penis in their woman - even if it is battery-operated.
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supernova (5518)
2007-02-14 19:53:43
oh what a wonder caricture of intimacy..sory listening to P!ATD now :)...anyway, with your dilema, explain to hiim that sex toys are not as good as him.
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Jak77 (6143)
2007-02-24 23:00:53
Act like your really turned on by him trust me it works it what my
gf did on our first time.
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DrSham (5677)
2007-02-27 17:24:54
Buy an enormous dildo and make him watch you play with it.
This will really make him feel inadequate.

Then you can dump him and find a real man who is secure with his manhood.
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doubleDtittys (5761)
2007-02-28 14:46:17
next time u see him tell him u have to tell him something in ur room! Then when u get there throw him on ur bed rip his opants of and then fuck him as hard as u possibly can! Moan really load even if it is fake moan! Ok dom mare than moan, SCREAM!!!
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doubleDtittys (5761)
2007-03-06 14:54:45
this is ur stupid friend
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